Is she pregnant...

[tkitty]

Ok I know this is stupid, but me and my gf has had unprotected sex about 5 times...I am afraid she is pregnant. I didn't go until I pulled out, then I went on my stomach. I mean as soon as I felt it coming I would pull, then wait like 4 seconds and it would finally come out. I heard that pre cum can get a girl pregnant, but when I masturbate I don't produce pre cum for some reason. She has had every one of her periods on time. I have just been worried because she has gained a little weight, but it could be because she has picked up some bad eating habits. Having un protected sex is stupid, and we both agree to stop doing it. It has scared us lol. Any help?

[notsure101]

I was in the same postition. First off what you need to do is ask her is she has felt different in the morning. Second, JUST TO MAKE SURE, I would have her take a pregnancy test. If she is not pregnant you got off lucky, if she is...I can only give you advice. Before I start, WEAR PROTECTION!!! Ok, if she is pregnant you need to make sure she is ok emotionaly. Second, it's your and her choice to tell her parents and her's. Ohh and make sure you just have her mom alone when you break the news. My girlfriend's dad FLIPPED! Then after you tell both your and her parent's you need to figure out what will happen with the baby. Like if you guy's will have him/her aborted, adopted, or if you guy's will be keeping him/her and taking care of him/her with alot of help from the parent's. All I can really say is stay away from her dad if she is pregnant, I still have bad memories from him yelling at me.

[FalconSmash]

I think just telling the mother is a stupid idea. Point is, you need to tell both parents if she is, because that's the right thing to do. He should probably do more than yell for having unprotected sex with his daughter.

I dontthink you should be having sex if you needed to start this topic, because you don't know how to deal with the reprecussions. Have her take a pregnancy test, and HOPE and PRAY she's not.

[Zazu]

There's a good chance that is is pregnant, yes. Any fluid that comes out of the penis during any kind of sexual activity will most probably contain sperm.

If she has had all of her periods on time, that is an indication that she may not be pregnant, but the only way you could get an answer would be to have a pregnancy test. These can either be performed by using a home-testing kit (which aren't the most effective ways of testing, but are normally quite accurate) or to arrange an appointment with your doctor to get a blood test performed.

It's up to you if parents are informed about the possible pregnancy, although if it turns out that she is pregnant, I think it is a must that both your and your girlfriend's parents are informed.

It's good to see that you are aware of the dangers of unprotected sex; just make sure in the future that some form of protection is worn to make sure that you don't have another scare like this.

[digzchickz]

As long as she has had her period since you last did anything, she should be ok, but it wouldn't hurt to try a test just to make sure. But yeah, the pull out method is not at all safe. Precum does have sperm in it, and just by putting your penis in her, when the precum comes out you are putting some sperm in her, even if you don't notice precum when you wank, there still might be some. And don't rely on having sex during less fertile times either (like right before/after her period) for safety, because that is how my girlfriend got pregnant lol.

[MichaelAdams1993]

You need to find out if she had her period since the last time you had sex. If she has your fine. If not think about whether or not she started getting fatter after the last time you did it. It is never a good idea to use withdrawl (pulling out) as a way to prevent pregnancy. I strongly suggest that if she hasn't had a period since your last time then she should take a test. As to telling the parents if she is pregnant. You should probably tell her mom first privately and then her mom can help you tell her dad. More then likely her dad will freak out and her moms help can be, well, helpful. You must tell her dad though, don't stop after telling her mom. Your parents it is up to you to tell both or one and which one. If you are keeping the baby (whether you are having it adopted or not) they should know. If she is to get an abortion, I would only tell one and then decide if the other needed to know, one should know thought because after all. They are your parents.

[Aves]

If she is, keep it (I'm pro-life), if she isn't, next time... Wear a condom. Besides that read the above posts

[Antares]

If she is scared too, then go buy a test and do it.
You never said if she missed a period so you should be in the clear.
But yea that was a stupid move. All 5 times. You should invest in protection. Buy a condom or get her on birth control.

But you should be fine.

[pontiacdriver]

Ok I know this is stupid, but me and my gf has had unprotected sex about 5 times...I am afraid she is pregnant. I didn't go until I pulled out, then I went on my stomach. I mean as soon as I felt it coming I would pull, then wait like 4 seconds and it would finally come out. I heard that pre cum can get a girl pregnant, but when I masturbate I don't produce pre cum for some reason. She has had every one of her periods on time. I have just been worried because she has gained a little weight, but it could be because she has picked up some bad eating habits. Having un protected sex is stupid, and we both agree to stop doing it. It has scared us lol. Any help?

The withdrawal method is not a reliable form of birth control as you have correctly mentioned that sperm can easily come out even before you ejaculate. At least you understand that, and please use condoms in the future if your girlfriend cannot or will not use condoms.

Not meaning to sound rude, but none of us can say with certainty as to whether or not your girlfriend is pregnant. What the two of you should do is head over to your local drugstore or discounter and go to the health and beauty section and pick up a home pregnancy test. Those things are not very expensive, and they are generally pretty reliable. However, my view is your girlfriend is best talking with her doctor especially when a girl becomes sexually active she needs to get examined down there yearly to ensure that things are all right. A doctor can easily administer a pregnancy test in the office to check her status. All because your girlfriend has put on weight does not mean that she is pregnant.

Basically, you need to make a plan with your girlfriend in the future about sex, and use condoms and she should get started on birth control especially in light of your both having sex so much.