Was it ok?

[SimplyXD]

Ok so i was in the locker room at the local pool the other day, there were a few other guys older than me maybe in their 30's but there was this one guy who was probably a year older than me (16). Well he was walking across the room and all of a sudden i cracked a woody from looking at him. As soon as he saw me he immediately came over to me. He whispered in my ear meet me in the shower in 10 mins when some people are gone. So i waited and there was only one other guy than us so i went in. he was there naked. He asked if i wanted to wank with him. I was quite horny at the time so i said yes!. Was this ok i had never met the guy before so i dunno, im really confused! HELP!

[Eskie Dog]

Um.. I really don't know. I mean I guess it's fine. I mean I would do it. Sorry I really don't know what to say

[Oblivion]

It's completely normal. A lot (about 50%) of males experiment sometime in their life.
I would be more careful round stranger however.

[bowlheadhere]

Ah, now that is a tough situation. If you knew the person, then yea, that is completely normal and safe to do. I mean, they were around your age and probably very similar to you, but the fact of not knowing them is a tough one. I think that it was okay considering that they werent really too different from you, but on the other hand, i do not recommend that you do this very offten (wank with complete strangers).

Also, you should not have ask yourself whether this was right or wrong. What is done is done. When the situation came up, you did what you did for a reason, did you? You should accept that whatever you have done in the past, stays in the past. You should not have to be put through the misery of know "what if", but live your life knowing that that was a good experience.

I hope i helped?

[notsure101]

I personally wouldn't have done it with a stranger and it could have lead to some bad thing's. But most guy's experiment.

[boysboysboys]

if thats all he wants to do you should be right.

[Giles]

hey mate if some guy said that to me i'd be there in a flash... but only if he wasnt too much older, the limit would probably be about 2 year older? well the reason for me anyway

[byee]

Wait. You're saying you had a sexual experience with a guy a year older than you in public you didn't even know? And you want to know if this is OK or 'normal'. C'mon. Let's count how many things were dangerous and risky and frankly inapppropriate in this impulsive escapade: 1) You didn't know him, 2) It was in a public place, 3) He was older.

Although 50% of all guys have a same sex experience to orgasm, your particular escapade is really out there in it's impulsiveness and bad judgement, in at least 3 important ways (see above). If you want to 'experiment', it's wisest to do it in a way (and with someone) that at least minimizes the risks of it either not working out, or at the very least, don't increase the probability of something truly bad happening.

[wolfman775]

I wouldent have done it! I wouldent even have met with him, I am always cautios around stranger of any age, You just dont know what they might do!

[Skeln]

Yeah I agree that this was bad judgement. First of all, he was a stranger and coulod have tried anything on you, from harmless mutual mastrubation to rape. Rape is a little extreme but it's always a possibility even when it's in a public place.

Also, had it gone further than mastrubation then you had the possibility of an STD. Even just by touching him as long as he has an STD infection there then you can gte it on your hand and you can spread it to other parts of your body. You don't know this kid and you don't know his sex life so STD is also a possibility.

[YourFriend]

Wait. You're saying you had a sexual experience with a guy a year older than you in public you didn't even know? And you want to know if this is OK or 'normal'. C'mon. Let's count how many things were dangerous and risky and frankly inapppropriate in this impulsive escapade: 1) You didn't know him, 2) It was in a public place, 3) He was older.

Although 50% of all guys have a same sex experience to orgasm, your particular escapade is really out there in it's impulsiveness and bad judgement, in at least 3 important ways (see above). If you want to 'experiment', it's wisest to do it in a way (and with someone) that at least minimizes the risks of it either not working out, or at the very least, don't increase the probability of something truly bad happening.

I agree with you, Sam, except the part with age, if it was a best friend situation, would it mean anything if he was 1 year older? It wouldn't, but yes, don't do that in future bcs he was a stranger, and even tough he probebly means you no harm, dont do such things with strangers!

[Giles]

sure it could of been serious but the fact he was only 1 year older reduces the risk dramaticaly, and if he had of wanted to go further simplyxd could of just turned him down and walked away.

[Skeln]

That's not the thing he may not have been much older but that makes little difference. I'm not saying for sure that something bad could have happened, I just want to get the point through that no matter what there's always a possibility for something bad to happen.

[Lights]

Sounds quite enjoyable (: I'd be stimulated massively by what happened to you.

[Donkey]

I don't blame you for giving it a go, temptation is tempting. But yeah, with a stranger would be a bad idea.

We're only giving you our opinion, this is for you to make your mind up about. What you did was probably just an impulse type thing.

[maeniel]

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[Aves]

Think this is kinda weird, but I guess its ok, as long as u were just wankin with hands, not cheeks!

[nick]

So if I've read this right, you let a complete stranger wank you in the shower at a public pool. Well you're either a liar or a raving lunatic, sorry, no offence!

[LUCKY555]

honostly if i got that choice i would have done it too

[MichaelAdams1993]

Hmmm. Interesting situation.

Things like this with friends are completely normal but a stranger is another story. Granted this person was about your age and you probably have a lot in common but I don't think is something you should be doing in a public place. If you wanted to do this you probably should have gotten to know this person better and then invited them over and had an experience in private.

This is entirely up to you however. There doesn't seem to be anything wrong with it except for the stranger danger part. Plus, you don't want to make anyone else uncomfortably because there is usually a locker room attendant and you said there was one other person right.

My final opinion is that experiementing is compeletely normal however I don't think it is okay with strangers and it should happen in a private place, not publicly.

[CestDan]

I think it is completely normal, I mean, we are teenagers and we are horny!!!

[mr.sexy_bomb]

i would have so done it unless i was seeing someone at the time

[Antares]

Probably not the smartest thing but kinda normal...
I mean it already happened to don't dwell on it but you could have been caught and kicked out, he could have like knocked you out and kidnapped you, raped you, whatever. So yea, probably not the smartest thing but its over now. Dont be concerned

[MykeSoBe]

Well, there are those temptations, but I just wouldn't have done that in that kind of place with someone I don't even know. If you guys talked a lot before, especially if the guy was a regular of the pool, the risk would lower, but be a bit more cautious next time, of which I assume there may be.

[bowlheadhere]

One can not help but wonder who they were tho. I would be really suspicious if a stranger asked.

[toyota098]

its normal, don't worry

[supernova8]

if u liked it thn it's alright

[HelloWorld123456]

I think the story was really irrelevant to asking the question,
so maybe next time just ask the question eh?

Is it ok to masturabate with another guy?
yes, plenty of people enjoy it, and I dont suppose theres really anything wrong with it.

agree with maeniel... I guess if you were fine with it ... It is gd ?

[MichaelAdams1993]

agree with maeniel... I guess if you were fine with it ... It is gd ?

He wasn't necessarily asking if it was okay to jack with another guy. He was asking if it was okay to jack with a complete stranger in the locker room at the public pool. That is different then just wanking with another guy.

[maeniel]

He wasn't necessarily asking if it was okay to jack with another guy. He was asking if it was okay to jack with a complete stranger in the locker room at the public pool. That is different then just wanking with another guy.
agreed, I only just realized what I was reading, so I removed the other post...




The story was relevant because it explained how he got into the situation of j/o with a stranger.


Exactly how did telling the story help with answering the question?
It doesnt aid in giving an answer, ...a stranger is a stranger in any situation, Its still some one you dont know.

All thats needed is a question...
Is it okay to masturbate with a stranger?

and honestly, I think not.
Id personally never recommend anything sexual with someone you dont know
ESPECIALLY in a public place.

mutual masturbation is one thing,
And I think thats perfectly fine if its something you wanna do
but with a stranger in a public place?
gotta saythats not a very smart thing to do

[bowlheadhere]

The story was relevant because it explained how he got into the situation of j/o with a stranger.

[Giles]

whether its a smart idea or not, its happened and now its over... will he do it again?

probably.