I think i love my best friend

[clementinecup]

I think I'm falling for my best friend, who is also a girl.
I'm pretty sure that i am a bisexual
I dont know what to do
she doesnt know im bisexual, in fact only 2 people know.
but im really nervous about telling her
i dont know if i am going to tell her...
im afraid that i'll lose my friendship with her
that she wont feel comfortable sleeping over
we joke around sexually a lot.
i've gotten really close to kissing her once or twice
idk
i dont know what to do
helpp?

[Dragonite]

if she really is your friend she wouldn't care if you are bisexual, but before you tell her be sure that you really want her to know I told my friends I was bisexual they said it was ok, and they haven't told anyone but i regret telling them.

[Vicarious]

Hey clementine, and welcome to VT! :)

I think that you should talk to her about it. If she's a real friend, she'll understand your emotions and help you with them. She'll know that you are cool with just being friends as long as you let her know this.

Good luck!

[dstnyisurs]

If she's your friend then she won't care. While it may be awkward, it may be best if you tell her and be open about it. You're in the coming out stage, and that's usually when you need friends by your side.
You may want to stage the conversation like this;
"Hey, I don't want this to ruin our friendship, but it's going to be a shock to you probably. Please keep this in mind and I want to be your friend even if this is a little awkward."
-Reply, reassurance from her, llama, so on-
"Im bisexual.. and I have a crush on you I think."
So on so forth.
Just be open about it. If she's your friend then she will stay your friend no matter if shes willing to address your crush or not.
It shouldnt affect your relationship if she's a worthwhile friend,and it sounds like you need her right now.