Something To Do With My Brother...

[Yesterdays Hero]

Now, my brother wants to masturbate with me, I'm almost 14, and he is almost 13, I haven't said yes or no yet. I have no problem with just masturbating with him, but I'm worried that if I do, do it with him, that he might want to take it further and have sex. So, what do you think I should say, "Sorry, but I'm not going to masturbate with you." or "Sure, I'll masturbate with you, but just masturbate, nothing more."

[Vicarious]

I think this is an unhealthy activity to start.

If you want to masturbate with other guys, do it with your friends. Not with other family members.

Just tell him he should ask his friends and not you.

[Oblivion]

I honestly don't think you should. Your reasoning is wonderful, plus, what if it goes wrong?
It's not like you can escape your brother. You'll be living with him until you move out. It's not like masturbating with friends, where you can kind of stop being friends if something goes wrong; he'll be your brother forever. I really think sexuality+family=bad.

Plus, if it does go further (not sure about Aussie laws, but I would guess they are somewhat like US laws) it would be technically illegal, as incest.

[Yesterdays Hero]

Yes, thankyou, I think you're probably right. I tell him what you said to say Oblivion.

[FalconSmash]

Although I agree that nothing further than masturbation should happen, why not let them masturbate together? Cousins do it, and they're half related to you. I think it's good to be open like that with a family member, that way they could talk to that person, and vice versa. I see nothing wrong with masturbation with your brother. But just leave it at masturbation.

[byee]

. say, "Sorry, but I'm not going to masturbate with you."


yes, that is what you should say.

[nick]

I agree with most of the others, its best kept private within your own household, so just tell him its a private thing.

[Raize]

say no. It's a step to incest and it'd be with you for forever, since you guys are related and will know each other all your lives. If he's curious about how other guys masturbate...then...tell him to watch porn or something, or do it with a friend. (Although, that'd be kinda awkward as well. It's probably best to just tell him no and not get involved)

[Θάνατος]

Well it is wrong to do anything with your brother.

Technically if you are only masturbating and not touching each other you two are not doing anything wrong yet. The problem lies here though. Once you start masturbating together you get more comfortable with each other. Once this happens, one thing to another and you start doing more stuff together.

My suggestion to you is not do anything and tell your brother no.

You should know this already and so I think that are considering doing this because you might be curious to what it would be like to experiment.

[dstnyisurs]

Nawwtt a good idea, luv.
I think what I need to say has been said already,
but he's your brother and he will be with you your whole life
and you wouldnt want simple masturbation to turn into some-
thing more and illeagal.
If hes curious, he needs to look to another source. There
are plenty more then something that could potentially be wrong.

[kitkat]

it is 4 u to decide i would rather masterbate w/t my bro if i was a guy than get your heart broken by a friend if u like him/her.

[pontiacdriver]

Now, my brother wants to masturbate with me, I'm almost 14, and he is almost 13, I haven't said yes or no yet. I have no problem with just masturbating with him, but I'm worried that if I do, do it with him, that he might want to take it further and have sex. So, what do you think I should say, "Sorry, but I'm not going to masturbate with you." or "Sure, I'll masturbate with you, but just masturbate, nothing more."

I would tell your brother that if he has any puberty or sexual questions that he should always feel free to come to you. However, doing sex acts between family members is never ever good, and sexuality is so powerful the next thing you know your brother is your lover which is not a good thing. The sorry, I am not going to masturbate with you is a perfectly fine answer as long as you temper that by letting him know that sexuality is normal and that you will answer any of his questions without getting physical with him. Also, you have to teach him to control his feelings and be responsible as you seem to have a good head on your shoulders.

[cooldude213]

Just tell him no because what if something unexpected happens

[Icarus7]

well you are in teen-ages so taht creates a lot of questions... if you are courious about it and your brother too... well i will put the second option :
"Sure, I'll masturbate with you, but just masturbate, nothing more."
and thats all... :)

[Scooby Dooby Drew]

:p
Guys, why are you still posting in here?
Yesterdays Hero already resolved this...
He said he was gonna say no to his brother.

[Tiberius]

Bump from 2009 :locked: