"showing off" boner

[MonsterMan]

Idk if im the only one but i dont try to hide my boners. I dont have a large penis im 13 and about 5.5 inches but i mostly show them off.. I love i when the girls ztart lookin and one actually got me head. So am i just weird? Haha

[coolkid1]

It depends on how you're "showing off". If you mean by just letting people stare at you with clothes, that's ok. Naked, on the other other hand, should be only with girls or guys you have {or want to have} a relationship with. It's natural to show off, just don't let it go to your head.

[Mmking]

Well most guys dont like showing off there erections. They feel weird when it happens in public. But i would not say you are weird because you like to show it! Just dont get to cocky, or get in trouble!

[byee]

You're not 'weird', but it's inappropriate. An erection is a personal, private thing to be enjoyed either alone at one's pleasure, or with the company of a committed relationship. You're using it as an advertisement. That's sorta a misuse of it, you're exploiting a natural physical reaction (the erection) as a way of arousing your audience in hope of getting either some attention or more. That's not what erections were really intended for.

There are other ways of getting attention without exposing yourself (and your insecurity), as well as respecting those around you. I'd strongly recommend you practice them, b/c at some point public displays of your erection might get you a reaction that's far less satisfying than what you're now experiencing.

[FalconSmash]

When it's a good one, there's no way I'm passing up a chance to show it off.

[Dragonite]

i'm not calling you perverted but some people do find that perverted.

[FalconSmash]

I call it pride in my penis.

[AllThatIsLeft]

Showing off your erection only gives the impression that you have no sense of self reservation... which leads to what else are you not worried about showing off?

Who you did?
What someone told you in confidence?

Also if that's the way you get attention, that gives the impression that your personality can not be very interesting.

[bowlheadhere]

It could just be because I am a reserved person, but I preferably don't like to show people my "member". Actually, for that fact, only one person really knows, and even though I am (i think? bigger than most people?) I just dont want to show people.

I think you should try to keep it to yourself though. As you get older, you will realize that what you are doing is not really so appropriate at most times.

[FalconSmash]

Well, only clothed. And it's natural, so I don't see a problem.

[bowlheadhere]

The only concern I have is that what if they are around a bunch of young children? How would you explain that to them?

Also, the main thing, is that, if you are "getting head" from people just out of blue and from showing off your boner, that could lead to bad things. It could lead to a sex addiction, sexually transmitted diseases, and possibly getting in trouble from reoccuring inncodents (if at school or in public).

Just a heads up though. I would jsut try to minimize such action, but that is just me.

[Donkey]

Some people may be aroused by seeing your erect penis, however others may be somewhat disgusted and not want anything to do with you. Generally those attracted by it won't be the nicest sorts of people anyway, even if that's a stereotype.

A penis isn't a new phone or a fancy toy... it's a penis. It's damn innapropriate to do what you're doing, as Sam mentioned above. But we can't control you.

I only suggest you try to get girls in a more... decent way, because in my opinion, that is strange.

[bowlheadhere]

I agree with Donkey. You may get the girl in the short term, but in the long term, the relationship wont last. You should look for someone that you want to live with, for other reasons than sex.

[MoveAlong]

What you want to hear: Great for you! You're proud of your dick and it's really hot when girls start looking at it. It may be sorta weird but at least you get off.

The actual truth: You need grow up if you're "showing off" your dick and letting it hang out. All you want is attention. Also it's kind of gross. I bet all you're gonna get is sluts.

[Giles]

considering i get boners in school all the time, ( theres some hod people in my school) i think that showing it off is soo wrong... i generally hold my bag infront of it or something.

[nick]

I think some of you are being a bit harsh, unless I havent read it properly no one is saying they actually get it out of their trousers and flash it around, that really would be wrong.

I know a few guys at school who like to show off a bit when the've got a tent pole in their trousers. I dont do that myself, I'm shy about it like most of the other guys that have commented. Its mainly when we're just in a group of guys and its treated as a bit of a joke. I wouldnt have much respect for someone doing that in front of girls because they might be embarassed, and anyway they would be more likely to think you were just being a dickhead than to think it made you more interesting than the other guys. After all they know we all get erections even if we dont all want to show it off.

[Lights]

Sure, I'll show it off a fair bit =P

[Aves]

IDK, i'm shy so no, but idk im 7.5" or so

[LUCKY555]

i dont hide them either

[MichaelAdams1993]

Showing off is completely normal as long as you are not going to far. You should be mature about it and it is one thing if you are simply not hiding it and letting people notice it if they are looking. Personally I hide mine because lots of times in public situations when you get one people may think it is because you are aroused by something and this can lead to teasing. All I am saying is be careful with how you "show off"

[Antares]

Im going to deviate from the norm here.

Do whatever you want. You will just have to face the consequences of your actions.
If you want to "show off" your erections, have fun.
Just know that there are going to be some consequences. I am sure people probably talk about it.

[coodood]

this may sound harsh but that is completely inapropriate and imature

[Whisper]

Okay I usually hate puberty and avoid this area with a passion but seriously
this is hilarious
and something new in an area of relentless redundancy

Im going to deviate from the norm here.

Do whatever you want. You will just have to face the consequences of your actions.
If you want to "show off" your erections, have fun.
Just know that there are going to be some consequences. I am sure people probably talk about it.

I completely agree
as long as you're not showing your actual penis in public (which is against the law!) I don't see the problem.
Some people get tattoos or piercings you show off your bulge
fuck it why not -shrug-
When your 70 you'll be missin this

There will be people that will talk about it
but if you don't care about that
w/e


All teen boys have erections CONSTANTLY and it can be really annoying and embarrassing, most spend a good deal of the day trying to hide them.
Your struttin it
interesting

[toyota098]

iis not wierd, its normal. At least you have pride in it! Good for you!

[Shaymin]

You're not 'weird', but it's inappropriate. An erection is a personal, private thing to be enjoyed either alone at one's pleasure, or with the company of a committed relationship. You're using it as an advertisement. That's sorta a misuse of it, you're exploiting a natural physical reaction (the erection) as a way of arousing your audience in hope of getting either some attention or more. That's not what erections were really intended for.

There are other ways of getting attention without exposing yourself (and your insecurity), as well as respecting those around you. I'd strongly recommend you practice them, b/c at some point public displays of your erection might get you a reaction that's far less satisfying than what you're now experiencing.


I agree with IAMSAM. Mostly, he toke everything out of my mouth so I have nonthing to say at this moment. Basicly, you should keep boners to yourself in public and other places where they may be people. Except when giving pleasure to ones self or relationship. So, ya.

[marktheman]

I love being naked and would show my body to almost anybody under the right circumstances, but that doesn't include boners. I think boners are super private and nobody should see them, even inside my pants, except when I'm in a sexual situation, certainly not in school. But that's me. If you want to show yours, it's okay with me as long as you keep it in your pants.

[trevor20800]

is think as long as you dont let it get out of hand you just have very high self confidence

[HelloWorld123456]

in my opinion that is very inappropriate and very unmature ... showing off you "Proud" moments it is very weird i must say ... these things are private ... things you should keep for yourself or for someone you have a relationship with ... but i guess thats my opinion

[YourFriend]

you shouldn't show your private parts to any1 in public.... that's just bad...