Stop watching Porn.

[CestDan]

Recently I have decided to quit watching porn, but there is a very big problem... I can't. I know that it is bad and it makes you think something false abut how sex is. Besides, every time that I j/o with porn I feel guilty.

I do not why, but every time that I start thinking in that I want to block that thoughts but the horniness beats me and I finish doing it. I'm 16 btw

Any advice to stop watching porn?????

A lot of thanks!!!!

[coolkid1]

I just would avoid going on the computer too often if possible. also try telling a friend and have them help you. I watch porn too, and the best tip is to just stop with the tips prvoided. If you must continue, however, remember that some porn sites covertly send Trojan viruses to your computer, so don't watch on the family computer.

[Wonder.]

Find a hobby or a good online game. I went a year without watching porn because of this one website. Now it's not as addictive but if you get tired of something, find something else.

[sethned]

i go on youtube a lot and that usually helps me

[Muffins]

Im trying to stop too, I reccomend using whatever internet security (if any) and block adult sites so atleast if your really horny you'd have to go and unblock it hopefully giving you enough time to talk yourself out of it. works for me. :yes:

[byee]

Blocking the sites is one thing, using some self control is the other, but porn is popular b/c it works, and it works b/c guys are extremely visual, it's a biological thing, it's wired into us. So, Dan, you're likely having a hard time quitting b/c it's a biological thing you're fighting against here, and that's always really hard.

What I'd recommend is a couple of things. First, ease off on the guilt thing. Again, you're watching porn b/c on a very biological level, it's highly viusually arousing and that is very powerful, it's like crying when you peel an onion or sneezing when you smell pepper or are near pollen. Then, going along with that line of thought, I'd acknowledge that the sex drive is very powerful and can be controlled, but not stopped. You CAN stop looking at porn, but since the genie is out of that particular bottle, you need an acceptable biological substitute, one that connects so powerfully as the porn you watch. And that's your brain, Dan.

You might want to substitute your imagination for the actual porn images you've been watching. Try to evolve fantasies about sexual situations that are arousing to you, allow your imagination to run a little freer. Your brain is a highly capable instrument for a lot of things, not the least of which is imagining *things* that are exciting or arousing for you. We often lose touch of that, in this very graphic age of ours, but remember that all technology (and all of the images and stories) you see so graphically displayed (and are so arousing) originally came form someone's brain, form their imagination. Your's can be as powerful (and successful!) a tool as theirs. Give it a try, stay with it long enough to practice. Your brain might not be used to creating those images and stories that *work*, but it will.

[unidanman]

Hey Yeah i wanna quit... the internal affairs have already taken the computer cos my brother accidentally came across some underage porn... No doubt they're monitoring every site that we go on
Does anyone know if cos im on my personal laptop they can see it... probs yes eh...

[cool-_-boy]

I am still watching porn, but i hope i can stop : )

[QuickQuart]

Well all of these are good suggestions but may I ask why you're quitting? Porn is a totally normal thing to be interested in, and, at least in this generation, it's a big part of puberty. It's not wrong, weird, or gross in any way. Unless it's child porn or animals or something like that.

[kenshin8106]

Hey man I know what your saying, I was trying for the longest time for religious purposes which I imagine is your reason because guys our age..porn is holy XD To really be honest with you, I was able to quit for a while but just got pushed into it, at our age its practically impossible to not do something so natural, I was really upset that I couldn't stop, but its 100% normal, us guys have such a massive sex drive..and in puberty its like 1000000000000000000000000x stronger XD ur normal man :D send me a msg if ya wanna talk more

[Blank]

keep your mind off such things, make your self busy by doing things you enjoy

[Kitty Purry]

Keep ur self busy that will alwYs help and if u need to don't Jo for a while

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

Please don't bump old threads. This one is four months old.
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