My heart is broken and I cannot fix it because I lost the pieces ...

[HelloWorld123456]

Again I dont know where I should post this ... I find that here (vt) is the only place i can lighten my heart and mind ...

My heart got broken many times ... GF affair with Best Friend ... So much more things that i just forgot how many times my heart got broken ... I feel than I am getting colder and colder evry day ... I am also making my way through being completly indifferent ... My aunt died and a tear did not even escape from my eyes ... as if it happened to someone i didnt know ... i didnt even feel a little bit of anything ...

what shall i do ? To be completly honest ... I dont know where my probkem is ... Whats my problem .. ? I just cant figure it out ... When thinking a sxecond time I can say ... Yeah my heart got broken lots of times ... then who needs a gf then again ... I need one ... and then but then i will end up with the pieces of my heart in my hand again for another time ... With ICE tears on the edge of my eyes ...

:(

[Gumleaf]

maybe you should think about what it is you are wanting and needing from a girlfriend and figure out within yourself whether you can get the same things you need from a good friend? if your heart has been broken so many times, i think it might be helpful to yourself to take a step back from the dating scene for a while. taking out the physical side of things, a good friend in my experience can nearly be more intimate and more connecting then a girlfriend. so if the answer to my question is that you can get what you want from a girlfriend relationship in a good friend, then i would be trying to create friendships with people or try and form a closer bond with an existing friend. if this idea isn't for you i still think you should take a break from dating because its only been leading to hurt lately and i think your heart needs some time to recover from all that pain. hope this makes sense, i'm tired sorry.

[HelloWorld123456]

yeah making friends is my Greatest problem ever ... I just cant seem to find any good friends ... the friends i had were friends that stayed with me beacuse of the money and stuff ... i used to have so many "friends" but i just cant figure out which of them are good friends or not .. i guess there were never good friends because all of them evaporated ... i am just lonely and cant seem to fit in any group ... help pls

[sebbie]

Girls come and go, don't worry too much about one. Time heals all.

Also I would say try and date more girls, then you can find out what you want in a girlfriend and develop your own standards.

[HelloWorld123456]

tnks sebbie i will take your advice =)

[kipper]

try getting to know a girl before you start dating her but make sure you make your self out as a man and not just a friend as with your aunt im sorry i had the same experience when my granddad died it puzzled me cause we were close but i was barely even sad when he died but try and cheer up girls like a active exciting guy. i have trained my self to feel no emotional pain or anger which works well for me but i end up having to act like im amused or happy just to keep every one else happy im sick of these people randomly crying for no good reason some people have real problems like living in a 3rd world country barley getting enough food to survive peoples sympathy should go to these people not some spoilt teenage girl which have never experienced any thing even slightly depressing the world is a horrible place if you look in the right places but every one covers up these things at acts like kids dieing of starvation and torture is not thing happening instead of making a difference it's a total disgrace if you ask me. well on that happy note thats all i have to say

[HelloWorld123456]

yeah i act something like that too =/