Wtf!!!! I would loose half my friends if they found out

[joey95]

:( im bi but if my friends find out i will loose heaos of them and my mum would say ohh joey ur just going through a phase!!!!! Wtf im not i hve been attracted to both for a long long time i needd help wtf shoul i dooo :( and how can i keep it quiet for a while ....but i wouldnt cre if my goooooood friends knew me as the bi emo i dc i would like that....thoughts? Help??

[johno2]

To be honest, you should wait until your in a stable relationship before coming completely out! Also, it might be a stage in puberty?

[youngbrown7]

i would wait intell your a little older to be certainly sure about what u like

[toyota098]

Its ok...just wait. its just a stage of puberty. Dont worry. If your friends don't find out, all's good!

[HelloWorld123456]

you could use the "Poker Face" thingy ...

[kipper]

there not real friends if the will desert you as soon as you tell them your gay/bi my suggestion is find some friends that you know will not leave you but keeps your current ones as well

[Mmking]

They are not really your friends if they dont accept you for who you are!

[FalconSmash]

Well, you don't have to like, come out to your friends. I mean, if they don't accept you, you don't need them. Besides, it's more likely the guy friends won't accept you, compared to the girl ones.

[bowlheadhere]

The first step you need to take is to accept yourself, afterall at the end of the day, you are the one person who is going to be 100% behind your back. After accepting yourself, you can go through and chose to tell your friends or not, but i leave you with one thought. If your friends are true freinds, would they ditch you just because you are bisexual? Are they true friends if they all the sudden decide to not like you because you have been yourself and just have not told them one thing?

My advice is to just accept yourself, and in accepting yourself, if you tell them, you will be okay with either outcome. If they remain friends that makes your bond even stronger, and if not, you just filtered through who are your real friends and who are not your ture friends.

Problems such as this need to cease to exist in the US. Everyone says "yea, everyone is equal, everyone has the same rights!", but if you look at it, the US is run by religion (specifically Christian/Catholics) and still discriminates against the minority (ie. gay/lesbian/bisexual/black/asian/hindu). We need to learn to break through these barriers and just see people as people. We should not long on the bad about a person, but the good. We should get to know people by who they are, and not base our opinions on ethnicity, religion, orientation, etc.

[Eskie Dog]

I don't think you would lose friends, a kid at my school came out of the closet and everyone still accepted him and it's a CATHOLIC HIGH SCHOOL.

[marktheman]

I don't think you can be sure when you're only 14. Puberty does weird stuff to people and your feelings might change in a few years.
I wouldn't tell anybody anything at least until I got out of high school, if it does turn out that you're really bi. Kids in school can be mean. If you mess around with any guys, they should be smart enough to keep it between the two of you.

[westy]

experiment, and when you've found out if or if not you are attracted to both, then you make your decision - Men have cravings but usually when they try it out, they either figure out if or if not it is for them.