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johno2
June 15th, 2009, 03:36 AM
I'm REALLY confused! I havn't had ANY sexual feelings for a girl, in like two years! (Since my last GirlFriend) I went to my uncles house on saturday, and my gay cousin and bf where there to wish my aunt a happy birthday, and i was intrigued!! I wanted so much to have something like them, both in love! But, when i see my other cousins around the same age in love, i don't! (Man and Women) I'm really confused?!

When i was 13 me and my friend, well had sexual contact (both boys), we went to the park the next day, and my friend says "I don't think we should so that again, because i didn't like it" I had to agree, but secretly i LOVED it!

Please help!! Im going MAD!!

~Johno:what:
joey95
June 15th, 2009, 03:47 AM
wellllll i think you might be gay ... butt we dont konw just talk to some more guys and girls and see wat u like best u neverrrrr no....and if u liked it ....WAIT.....U LIKED IT ..RIGHT SOOOO UR GAY...GOOOOO YOU!!!!! :)
johno2
June 15th, 2009, 03:56 AM
Yeh, but if you read other topics, boys have been masturbating with each other, doesn't mean there gay!? ARG!! Help me!!!!
maeniel
June 15th, 2009, 04:28 AM
If you dont have any sexual attraction to females, but do for males, your gay.
though, if your young Its possibly a phase. but, there's absolutely NO point in asking people if your gay or not. thats a question only you can really anwer.

And if you are, theres nothing wrong with it. your sexual orientation doesnt make you who you are, and theres absolutely nothing wrong with loving anyone, even of the same gender..



oh and..

Yeh, but if you read other topics, boys have been masturbating with each other, doesn't mean there gay!? ARG!! Help me!!!!

boys masturbating with each other doesnt make em gay, its only a bit of curiosity and expiramentation,
youngbrown7
June 15th, 2009, 04:53 AM
ask your self if your attracted to any girls sexually. if you arnt than you mite be gay. but if u can than it is probably because your confused.
toyota098
June 15th, 2009, 05:07 AM
its ok...i don't think you are gay
johno2
June 15th, 2009, 05:49 AM
ask your self if your attracted to any girls sexually. if you arnt than you mite be gay. but if u can than it is probably because your confused.

To be honest. No, no im not. I haven't been for 2 years since my last GF. But i haven't been sexualy drawn to men either? Maybe im just asexual?
joey95
June 15th, 2009, 05:49 AM
yay maeniel helped me out =D
Giles
June 15th, 2009, 10:10 AM
possibly a phase... or u might truly be gay... have you thought of being bi? i am and its great.
Schon
June 15th, 2009, 01:03 PM
idk, sounds like you may be gay, however as said above, it may be a phase, masterbating with another guy dont make you gay, definetly not.
YourFriend
June 15th, 2009, 04:40 PM
I think your gay, but what's wrong with that? i am gay and i looooooooove it and i am proud of it!!
Aneklusmos
June 15th, 2009, 05:21 PM
It's most likely that your just curious. If you have both emotional and sexual feelings for girls then it is possible and you should explore the possibility. By explore i mean think about it. Everybody has an interest in comparing themselves to each other. So are you curious or actually homosexual?
BeautifulSilence
June 15th, 2009, 05:24 PM
:arrow: Sexuality.
johno2
June 16th, 2009, 02:44 AM
Yeh, thanks for all your imput guys!!! I think it's a phase. I don't think im Gay, but Bi is a possibility.
MichaelAdams1993
June 16th, 2009, 08:05 PM
I think it is possible you are gay. What you need to do is some serious thinking about whether or not you are interested in girls. I understand why you had to agree you didn't want to mess around with your friend anymore. That is totally up to him. If you don't have any interest in girls then you are probably gay. Remember though that to be gay you must have an emotional AND physical attraction to members of the same sex.