very confused, possibly psychic

[Iron Man]

ok, i had this dream that my mother died, and just recently doctors found a breast lump in her. this just tore me up inside. how should i react?

[Mzor203]

The first thing you should do in a situation like this, is address your main concern. Your main concern at the moment is NOT whether you are psychic or not... that doesn't change what happens to your mother. Your main concern right now should simply be taking care of your mother and making sure she has the support she needs from her family.

Every night, you have somewhere between 4-7 dreams every night. That's a lot of dreams, and a lot of stuff can happen in all those dreams. The most likely explanation is that you remembered that dream specifically because it fit the current context. We tend to get freaked out a little at coincidences... so don't generally stop to think about it. In short, you are likely not psychic, and thinking about the death of your mother is not going to help at a time like this, so we need to turn back to where the main concern is.

Finding a lump doesn't mean anything final. There have many, many breast-cancer survivers. What you need to do is make sure you're there for your mother, and offer her all the emotional support that you can during this time. It'll be easier for her to progress through treatment if she knows that she can count on you to be there for her, and that the whole process isn't worrying you to death.

I hope everything goes okay for you and your mother. I'm sure it'll be fine in the end. :)

[Iron Man]

thanks, just throwing it out there that both of my grandmothers died of cancer.

[Mzor203]

About that, you have to consider that older people are going to have a much harder time dealing with cancer than a younger person. While it is certainly not impossible for it to go either way, it's much better to keep an optimistic mentality for the time being.

[Iron Man]

well, i will try. its just that many unfortunate things have been happening to me. it feels like this is next on the list.

[Strength]

ok, i had this dream that my mother died, and just recently doctors found a breast lump in her. this just tore me up inside. how should i react?

It's called, premonition, my mum gets it all the time. O_o

[HelloWorld123456]

i do get them .. and many other things ... that link with the seventh sense ... they suck ... believe me in the long run youll get mad ... i am almost there