Question for guys:

[countrygirl04]

I know that all guys hav different opinions on this stuff, and i just wanna see all the different answers. how can a girl get u to like her? and wat actually makes u like a girl? are there any signs that u guys give to show that u like someone?
I hope my post isnt too long!!

[donniedarko]

Well it definatly varries from guy 2 guy, but 4 me, a girl can't really get a guy 2 like her, it has to b things nobody can help, like shared intrests, or the guy thinking your hot, or u thinking the guy is hot

[Xnelsonx]

Turn him on! I like girls who are hot funny and NICE! Ill usually smile all the time when im talking to the girl i like. Hope it helps!

[bud2.0]

for me it's a personality if some one is a bitch all the time or is anoying as hell, then i wouldn't like her, a sigh would be that a guy may be blushes or says high to a girl a lot

[kipper]

i like a girl with a positive look on life and that can always cheer me up never be shy and a average body/looks

[Alexwhite]

if the guy talks to u on a daily bases, he likes u. take intrest in the guy, that'll get his attention

[xian]

hot body, the guy is hanging on her. and the guy probly may have a boner when you say i've seen __[girls name]__ naked.

[Origami]

I know that all guys hav different opinions on this stuff, and i just wanna see all the different answers. how can a girl get u to like her? and wat actually makes u like a girl? are there any signs that u guys give to show that u like someone?
I hope my post isnt too long!!

hot body, the guy is hanging on her. and the guy probly may have a boner when you say i've seen __[girls name]__ naked.

If you want lust, then this is DEAD ON. If you want love however it can be a much more complicated deal.

For a guy to like/love you and not lust you it would entail having a drop dead personality, or more or less just being fun to be around. (: I like girls who can be like best friends to me. It allows for a somewhat solid foundation on the relationship itself and makes it easier to talk or get the relationship started.
Signs? A lot of guys will come out and talk to a girl more, or be around here more than usual if he likes here, however some guys actually retreat and distance themselves from the ones they like. It's an annoying game of cat and mouse.

[Aves]

A Real way for a me to like a girl is for them not to be ugly. I can deal with smaller boobs, smaller ass, but I can't deal with tons of zits, or fat chicks. Another thing is they can't be bitchy or really awkward (ex. asking me who I like [I keep that to myself, and normally its them], or trying to control my life).

[Antares]

I can show you something I observed.
Basically this girl in my class started intensely flirting with this guy in my class. They are now dating.
Basically all she did was...talked to him all the time, followed him around, asked to see his abs and what not...and basically kept touching him and doing all other sorts of stuff.
I personally think this approach was annoying and stupid but hey, it worked.
I prefer just hanging out, trying to make me laugh, etc.
Not being all over me but kinda hanging by...and just...idk.
Its unique for everyone.

General Puberty :arrow: Relationships and Dating

[tyler69]

i like a good lookin girl who will be all over me

[apples and oranges]

Always look your best.
Tell him you like him but then after that dont mention it if he says he doesnt like you.
As you probably know most guys are shallow so if your hot and cute (in the ways you speak) then thats all you can really do.:wub:

[Shogun]

I want a girl w/ a sense of humor, but I don't want a girl who just laughs at everything... It's fucking annoying... My last gf was like that and I went insane, and also, be intelligent, I hate those stupid cheerleaders who are all ditsy, obviously some other guys will disagree, but for some reason I don't like when girls are all over me, b/c that means in my head shes like that with every guy making her a... And lastly, I hate saying, but looks matter. Not a huge amount but enough, also, must be shorter, but thats no problem cuz I'm 6' 2" lol. Hope this helped

[zoom zoom]

good question. well i like a girl that isnt afraid to be her self. To me if the girl can be her self in front of me and everyone else and likes me and she has the guts to ask me out ill go with that.

[westy]

Well, to me I find it attractive when a girl goes out of her way just to talk to me or help me with someting, but what i find really attractive is when a girl argues with me, not fighting or the stuff you see on judge judy- just last week this happened where i got in an arguement where a girl asked me " Where do you think Brandon Marshall wants to go? " - An hour later, after the arguement was over ( SHE WON :( ) I found that her personality was astounishing. That even in this male dominate society, she was willing to stand up for what she believed in ( in this case she thought Brandon Marshall wanted to go to the Ravens- I said Eagles ).

[Aneklusmos]

Well, she has to be friendly and out going, not some shy timid mouse. Funny, smart is good. Some one who is "out there" in terms of social life. But not some airhead cheerleader who picks on people. So nice. And having something pretty like eyes always helps but isn't always necessary

[dmeek7]

well..it depends on the guys standards....its a provine fact that less attractive people have lowered their standards b/c they cant get a higher rated girl/boy....so...on scales of one to 10....if you are, lets say, a 6..they have lowered their standards to 6's b/c 9 dont usually date 5 or 6's for exeample....so back onto the subject......i actually pretty much would date any, cute, smart, cuddly, nice, girl....as long as shes in the right size range..(im sorry if i offend anyone but i dont like oversized girls).....i actually just tell girls that i like them also...b/c its stupid to make it some kind of secret..its no big deal if you like somone

[rossafc92]

I like girls who like me, if you get what I mean. I'm not usually interested in ones say at school who I don't really know or socialise with. That said though, I find it extremely annoying when someone becomes excessively "clingy" and when it is too obvious that they like you.
Obviously looks do count a bit, however I'm not always attracted to the nicest looking girls. Those who are genuine and get along with you are the type that I prefer, hope that helps.

[pkid]

Again it depends. For me, first you need to look good, have good personality and very flirty

[anime Freak]

with me its just share interests with me and talk with me

[Drakon]

I like a girl that's slim, nice everything
that just like doesn't bitch just like my girlfriend

[tiger17]

she has to show interest n try to do activities with me just basically give attention..it makes me like her when she dresses nice smells good, nice sense of humor, when she teases lol...a sign is I smile at her, tell her looks nice, ask her on a date, if that not a good sign then ur just not payin attention lol

[kyle95]

how can a girl get u to like her?

there has 2 b something that makes me accustomed to a girl, comfortable to be around, a friend, someone I can confide in. a physical attraction helps, although all girls are beautiful in their own special way. she should be genuinely interested in the things i do, but be careful not 2 over-compensate.


and wat actually makes u like a girl?

Iif she's cute, sensitive, honest, mature, classy, dresses well, no head games, if she shares my ups and downs

are there any signs that u guys give to show that u like someone?

ya, i tend to hang less with my mates, make myself available anywhere she may be, come 2 her defence, be more attentive, compliment her, offer to walk her home, mind my language and manners, dress better, ask her out on a date

[chairy]

well it's jst that wen i feel she's good for me then i'll do watever she wanna that's wen she knows that i like her ..... for me i think it's wen i can depend on her n she becomes my back, so in other word it's her personality is the thing that can make me like her :)

there's a big sign all the guys do :P which is they wanna make the girl they like happy all the time so they will do stupid things jst to make her laughe , other than that i think it depends on the guy's personality, so u have to know the guy very well :)

[Sportz]

well i usualy tease the girl i like but make sure she knows im teasing....and to get me to like u just flirt with me...ask for my number and start textin me at random times and stuff like that