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emmalovesgs
June 14th, 2009, 10:09 AM
okay im new here but i had a relapse today and i hadn't self harmed in 3 months.
its because of george sampson [i understand that this is an american forum but hes the boy who won britain's got talent last year]
i seem to be really obsessed with him and everytime i see someone else who meets him i get really jealous and harm myself.
my mom knows but doesn't really talk to me much and i would never tell my dad so please don't tell me to talk to someone cus i have no-one
i have met george once and it was the best day of my life - he was so nice but just 2 weeks after meeting him i started to self harm again.
i can't travel atall really and he never comes to my area and when he does im normally not allowed to go see him.
he came on friday and i saw him but i didnt meet him and hes coming 2 more times in the next 2 months but im not allowed to go even though i only want to go after the show to get an autograph so it wouldn't cost anything.
Please help me because i can't stop. ):
DinoRAWR
June 15th, 2009, 05:07 PM
As hard as it may be, I think the best thing would be to distance yourself from him and this obsession you seem to have with him. I know that's probably hard and could possibly cause the problem to get worse but in the end if you try to stop thinking about him so much, it might help you to get over your SH problem since your fascination with him seems to be the main cause of it.

Sorry of this is terrible advice but I've had a similar problem in the past and thats the only thing that helped me. I hope it gets better for you.
xoxo
NightFighter
June 15th, 2009, 10:04 PM
Would George really want one of his fans hurting themselves because of him?
Ofcourse he wouldnt so please dont :]
Remember that he is just a celebrity. No matter how much you think you know him, you dont really. You dont know what he's really like behind closed doors.
Like DinoRAWR said, the best way is to distance yourself from him.
You'll get over this obsession soon :)
emmalovesgs
June 16th, 2009, 01:22 PM
but i can't distance myself that'd make it worse i think "/ and i don't think i can get over it quickly ive been obsessed for over a year.
DinoRAWR
June 16th, 2009, 03:11 PM
I know, it can be hard but even if you just tried telling yourself that it's not good for you. Try turning it into a healthy obsession, see George as your reason to stop because he wouldn't like the thought of someone harming themself because of him.
Try turning your feelings towards him into something positive, make him your reason to stop so that if you do meet him, you'll be free of all those negative things that could weigh you down at that moment.
emmalovesgs
June 17th, 2009, 03:12 PM
okay thankss babee ill try :)
Rogue27
June 18th, 2009, 08:16 PM
Do this for yourself. Try a healthy obsession( if there is one!) do this for yourself so you can be healthy. This is not a healthy thing. He wouldn't want to hear that his fans are hurting themselves because of him. If that's a motivation, use it and free yourself from this! I happy to help if you ever need it.
foof1
June 21st, 2009, 08:41 PM
Would George really want one of his fans hurting themselves because of him?
Ofcourse he wouldnt so please dont :]
Remember that he is just a celebrity. No matter how much you think you know him, you dont really. You dont know what he's really like behind closed doors.
Like DinoRAWR said, the best way is to distance yourself from him.
You'll get over this obsession soon

i agree and you should listen to this guy
Beautiful Obsession
June 22nd, 2009, 04:03 PM
its just like a crush really, it will take a while for youu to get over him, but try not to think about him, get rid of all the texts, and soon you wont remember all this.. x