Help pLz !! not feeling to great.... :(

[sam i am]

OK well last night i was on the phone with my friends.It was a 4 way with my friend Tyra,alex and Alex's friend(jesse). We was talking and such and jesse brought up that he hate gays,etc. And then it became awkward because Tyra and alex knows im bisexual. However i was like o and he ask me "ur not gay are u?"and i told him no and I heard him say whew. I ask alex to tell him that i was bi since my family was around(and since i didn't mind telling jesse im bi because i don't really know him). And the way jesse responded made me feel weird idk i can't really explain it. It just made me think for a while. Im happy being bi but when he responded like that i fucking hate my self. I hate the way I am. I used to cut but now im worried im like falling back where i started. Just please help me get over this or idk to change my sexuality. Now i feel like shit, i feel like im one level under to everybody else because the way i am.

[Wonder.]

Does it really matter what he thinks? If he doesn't respect that you're bi, then can you really call him a friend? Don't worry about it. There are many people that don't like gay or bi people but you just have to ignore it. Do you still call him a friend? If he has a problem with it, then just stay away from him.

[sam i am]

Well i don't think it matters what he thinks but he's every where like their my friends too. It's just so weird like i don't know wtf is wrong with me, i just like collapse emotionally in side. I really stayed strong and didn't care what people think but for some reason what he thinks about gay,etc mad me feel stupid :(

[Wonder.]

If you really want to be friends still, then just talk to him. Ask him why he has a problem with gay people and tell him that your personality isn't going to change because of this. You aren't going to act any differently. And if he still has a problem with it, then you really can't consoder you and him friends.

[sam i am]

I guess ur right. No u are right... thank u i'll try to talk to him some time. You been very helpful dude thanks. I'll try to but hey if he's homophobic than that's him

[Zazu]

If you really want to be friends still, then just talk to him. Ask him why he has a problem with gay people and tell him that your personality isn't going to change because of this. You aren't going to act any differently. And if he still has a problem with it, then you really can't consoder you and him friends.

*agrees*

I see the bottom line being that if someone is so anti-gay that them finding out that you're bisexual would make them dislike you, they're not worth worrying about. People like that are simply not worth having as friends imho, bugger what he thinks, as long as you're happy with your sexuality then stick to it :)

[sam i am]

Thxs ik im bi but sometimes i wish i wasn't i wish i was completely straight not half .. However i can't change but i want to but ik if i do i would be lying to my self

[dstnyisurs]

Lovie, he's simply hating to hate. He probably has no good reason. If you don't know him that well then don't associate with him, because obviously he wouldn't respect you.

[mr.sexy_bomb]

dude if your friends dont accept you for who you are then they never were your firiends, like when i 1st came out my really homophobic friends, accepted me because they were my real friends.

[sam i am]

Thxs that means a lot guys ...i won't even try to be friends with a hater lol i guess there's no reason to talk to him but i'll try i always try =] and i never give up that's how i am