how do i...

[therollingstone949]

ok im going out with this girl and i love her and she said she loves me back. im having a lot of fun. but i want to kiss her and i have txted her about kissing and at first she was like if ur ready and then she said we were to young. and dont call it weird but we have kissed though the phone lol. but i dont c her until school starts again and at our school of u get caught kissing someone u get in trouble. i was thinking we could like hide in the back of a movie theriter and kiss but idk. can u guys plz help a dude in love:wub:
much appresiated

[IAMWILL]

Hey! Ive helped you before! (Back in the Sbrocksdaworld days...)

Well, can't you hang out somehow during the summer with her? If you two love each other, you shouldn't worry about the physical part of the relationship, you shouldn't need it. If you two are hanging out though, and you two are alone, there will be a moment when you feel it's time, and when you feel this (trust me you'll know the feeling), just stroke her hair, cuddle with her, and just kiss her. You don't need to ask, it just happens, that one of the wonderful things about relationships, when two people connect, there is never a need to ask questions :)

[Rockin Rolla]

Hey! Ive helped you before! (Back in the Sbrocksdaworld days...)

Well, can't you hang out somehow during the summer with her? If you two love each other, you shouldn't worry about the physical part of the relationship, you shouldn't need it. If you two are hanging out though, and you two are alone, there will be a moment when you feel it's time, and when you feel this (trust me you'll know the feeling), just stroke her hair, cuddle with her, and just kiss her. You don't need to ask, it just happens, that one of the wonderful things about relationships, when two people connect, there is never a need to ask questions :)

I agree and dissagree with this.

the physical part is needed, but this comes with age and maturity.. sorry will but seeing how you are 13 i highly doubt you have experienced some of the things i have, NO OFFENSE.

Now, seeing how you must be young.. guessing in the 13ish area, kissing, hugging/holding is a very normal way to psychically express your feelings for one another, and is probably a good idea.. now, move theater would be a good place if that's what your into, but im sure there are plenty of other places.. maybe the local bowling alley or a teenage club ( if you have any around your area). Hell kid, maybe you could step up and take her out on a date, or to the mall and buy her somthing nice before you jump strait into all of this.. either way, if you love each other, it will come with time. hope this helped.

[IAMWILL]

In brief response to ^^.

I don't need the experience for this, it's something that's logical. Besides, I know many couples that are abstinent and not married, they've been going out for years now without sex, and there about 21 now. You and I's take on this is just our opinions, not facts, so we shall let the OP decide which to follow and accept.

[Rockin Rolla]

You and I's take on this is just our opinions, not facts, so we shall let the OP decide which to follow and accept.
Respect, and Agree.