I really love him

[ackmedsgirl666]

in the least i am quite content with my new boyfriend
right now i;m dealing with the torture of being called a whore because me and him want to have sex (which i hate) but as i have been told before if thats what i want to do i have to deal with the names.
anyways my bestie and me we're pretty close until he came into the picture. i love my boyfriend hes the best but I don;t want to lose my bestie. i also love her too..
any ideas on how i can maintain this relationship without breaking either of their hearts?

[Skeln]

Well...so wait your best friend also likes your boyfriend?

If that's the case, then try to explain to her that your her friend, but you and your boyfriend are in a current relationship and you would appreciate it if she didn't try anything and also I guess you could use the old "hey, were best friends and 1 guy isnt worth ruining our relationship, so why don't we remain friends" or something along those lines. Best I got.

[IAMWILL]

Well, "Bros before Hoes" but umm... for girls..... oh ya "Chicks before Dicks".

You never should lose a best friend over a boyfriend. Its simply a rule of thumb. There's plenty of fish in the sea.

[ackmedsgirl666]

Well...so wait your best friend also likes your boyfriend?

If that's the case, then try to explain to her that your her friend, but you and your boyfriend are in a current relationship and you would appreciate it if she didn't try anything and also I guess you could use the old "hey, were best friends and 1 guy isnt worth ruining our relationship, so why don't we remain friends" or something along those lines. Best I got.
umm no
she does't like my bf
shes also currently in a relationship
shes just jelous thaT im giving him all the attention....
BUT shes also doing this to me ignoring me and such with her new FRIEND but she also doesn't like him

[dstnyisurs]

Talk to her.
It seems you two have simply lost touch with one another what with all the boys and such.
Maybe you both can come to an agreement. If she's really your friend she'll love you no matter who you're dating.

[rubidoux]

Everyone in the world doesn't have to know about your sex life. It should be between you and him. If you stop telling all your friends about it, you'll stop getting grief about it.

Believe it or not, a lot of it really is jealousy anyway. She may not even realize that's the case, but it is.