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Kurfenfo
June 12th, 2009, 04:26 AM
I might have made my other post too long, so I'll make this short.

I feel like I have some feelings for this one guy in school...and I'm a guy. I've never felt it before, so I wouldn't know how to respond to it. There's no sexual attraction to in this all (I really don't find him sexually attractive. He looks like a normal guy to me), which is weird because then I feel all damn confused as to why I feel this. (I like this one girl at school, and when I see him talking to her, almost like flirting...I get all fucking frozen in my mind--nervous--and then I get pissed off at the guy (to myself).)

I don't know..how should I talk to him? School ends in a week...and I was hoping I'd say something before it becomes too damn late to say anything. :what:

I tried this before, and I felt he was getting all worked up about it, since his tone sounded impatient and worried, so before I said anything...I changed the subject. (Kinda my fault, I screwed up and kept holding it off from him telling him not to worry) Then I felt too nervous to say anything.

I already know I should act cool, since I'm going to be talking to a guy...and it should build some kind of confidence...but would it be the right thing to do? I already feel like he's suspecting me...and I've only been friends with him for two months, but I feel something should be done before it turns into something I could lose control of...

nick
June 12th, 2009, 10:50 AM
I'm not sure that I really understand what it is you feel for him if there's no sexual attraction. Sounds like you should just be friends and keep any other thoughts to yourself otherwise you might scare him off.

Skeln
June 12th, 2009, 02:17 PM
Well...tyr to see how he feels about you at first. Ask him how deep he thinks your friendship is, maybe then you could get a better idea as to what the next move should be. If he thinks of you as a minor friend, then maybe not the best idea to try anything.