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punkjake
June 11th, 2009, 02:48 AM
10.Don't rush things.
If you rush things in dating such as kiss,date,sex(biggie) then your partner gf/bf will feel pressured with you.Pressure isn't good because than they think you are going to try to be the ruler in the relationship,and to be truthful there really shouldn't be one because it takes to two to be in a relationship:yes:.
9.Treating partner with respect
If you want a good relationship you shouldn't abuse(verbally or PHYSICALLY),touch them if there not ready,or give them things they shouldn't be using(such as drugs or alcohol unless they're over age[ON THE ALCOHOL!!!!!]) .1.If your abused or any of the above I think you shouldn't be with them.duh :yawn:
8.Pet names. T_T
Don't use a lot of pet names because really that is really anyoing like cuttie pie,snukiewockems,honey bun.
7.Personal space
I can not stress this enough!!!!Don't call every 5 minutes or ask'em where are you always be up in there face.
6.Talking about there parents.
This self explanatory if there parents are mean to you and uptight try to be nice to them and don't talk about them because in the long run it'll be better. :yes:
5.Over protection/Jealous.
If you gf/bf talks to someone else like their X don't get mad than ask so what are you talking about.You know or don't get mad if they look at someone who walks past them or flirt with someone else because you know you would probably do the same thing.Well good night and I'll finish the other half to morrow
4.TrustThanks sebbie :D
[/Quote] You should trust each other how to act. For example if your girl/boyfriend is speaking to another girl/boy you should trust that they will not cheat etc. Trust is the foundation of all relationships.[/Quote]by Sebbie the Awesome :D
3.Cheap Dates
DON"T EVER I MEAN EVER HAVE A SUPER CHEAP DATE.Example Mikey D's(McDonald's)Ecspecialy if its your year or month reunion celebration thingie,that would be the worst of the worst of the mistakes unless...thye don't mind it but i won't recomend it be a every BIG date thing,maybe every small date like just out to eat and stuff

sebbie
June 12th, 2009, 08:36 AM
Some good points there Jake.

A point which should also be considered in any relationship is the trust between the two members. You should trust each other how to act. For example if your girl/boyfriend is speaking to another girl/boy you should trust that they will not cheat etc. Trust is the foundation of all relationships.

Raize
June 12th, 2009, 09:56 PM
5 is a huge one. I've seen so many couples destroyed because of jealously. I think it's silly. I mean, if they're cheating, there would be many signs, and you'd find out eventually anyway. It's hard to keep that thing secret.

sarabear
June 14th, 2009, 12:07 AM
i find these untrue.haha.