either way im fucked

[Trumpeter_2911]

my current gf, i dont like her in that way, its just my feelings for her arent there anymore, and after a long long story, ive got 2 options, if i stay with her im hurting her and myself because im leading her on but im not happy with her and if i dump her i will hurt her, we were best friends before dated, i prefer her as a friend, but i feel so so so shit for what im doing, i dont know what to do :(:(:(:(

[sebbie]

It is wrong for you to lead her on, and there is no reason that as long as you break up on nice terms that you cant remain friends. In my opinion it would be better for you to do it sooner than later. Also don't break up by text or phone, speak to her face to face and let her know how you feel.

[byee]

At 15, it's not supposed to last forever! If your feelings have changed, move on. It's honest, it's kind, and it's good practice. Things change (esp. feelings!), and it's important to recgonize when that happens and take the steps to address that.

As long as you are kind, there's no obligation to stay in something that's outlived it's usefulness. And, there's the possibility you can be friends. And that the friendship will be better than what you have now.

[Guitarist4Life]

bassically don't chicken out, meet her face to face and in the most kind gentle way possible start a conversation and discretely start bringing up the topic about i would rather be your friend. again be honest, do it face to face, and dont be bitchy about it.