Advice please

[kipper]

At my school theres this girl i really like but she is always very dismissive of me at school but were good friends out of school i really just dont get it. All the other girls in the class are so simple and easy to charm but the one i want seems to be the most complex how do i go about dating her?

[Rutherford The Brave]

Well to be honest, sometimes girls are like that. All I can really say is be yourself, girls would rather have a man, who loves to have fun and be himself. Rather than one that would rather than someone to take their breathe away. I'd sa try to get closer to her, invite her to hang out, maybe go to a movie. Just try to something fun, but don't try to hard. You'll do well.

[sebbie]

At my school theres this girl i really like but she is always very dismissive of me at school but were good friends out of school i really just dont get it. All the other girls in the class are so simple and easy to charm but the one i want seems to be the most complex how do i go about dating her?

Be confident and ask her out, in the worst case scenario she can only say no.

[Rutherford The Brave]

Be confident and ask her out, she can only say no.

Not really she can say yes, and she can say maybe. You cannot forget other outcomes.

[sebbie]

Not really she can say yes, and she can say maybe. You cannot forget other outcomes.

Sorry I should have worded it a bit better, I meant to imply in the worst case scenario she can only say no. My bad on that one, I will edit my original post to make it more clear :)

[kipper]

i asked her to the movies (i didnt say it was a date) though i hoped she would think it was a date and im really not sure she just seemed really nervous and hervoice was very high. i always here all this stuff about reading a girls body language but i have no clue if she gave me good or bad signs. Im still in year 7 and my class has been together for years and its a class of about 22 but no ones really has asked any one out yet and it would be kinda bad if she rejected me the other thing im worried about is where both going to diffrent schools at the end of the year so im pretty sure if i got any thing started with her I'd have to call it quits with her and i don't want to have to do that to her but i dont think i can stay away for another 6 months its so hard to decide!

[therollingstone949]

sometimes girls can be that way. just ask her if she likes u. that q is perfict because u can ask it and she would not be afended and see what she says.if she says yes then ask do u want to go out with me. sometimes complex girls are nice but u got to figure them out. good luck. im pullin for u.
PEACE:cool:

[kipper]

thanks for the advice if any one else has any thing else to add it would be appreciated thanks !

[sebbie]

Ask her out on a date, to the cinema, ice skating or whatever. Do not be afraid of being rejected, people don't always feel the same way about each other. Dealing with rejection is something that everyone will face.

Just because you are both going to different schools doesn't mean you can't keep in touch with each other does it and who knows you may meet someone new you like in the future.

[bowlheadhere]

I would just tell you how you really feel, and if she feels the same way, it will all work out. You just have to keep your head up high, go right out there, and tell her how ou feel.

hope this helps.