i need a answer

[sammy]

how do you know your gay because every time i see a good looking guy or a girl i imagine that im doing them? im i gay or what please help me!!!
thanks for your answers

[Ripplemagne]

There's no absolute answer to that. People have different views on it. I had a friend who didn't believe bisexuals even existed and put forth a compelling argument that supported his stance. I know other people who think that there's a gay gene, though that's more pop science than anything. My personal view is that people are biologically straight with homosexual tendencies and the choice of acting upon it or not is up to you.

If you have these feelings every time you see someone, that may be a concern. I'm going to need more information to evaluate.

[notsure101]

It may just be your hormones making you think all that. When you have a physical and mental attraction to the same sex that's when you are gay. Now being Bisexual is different. You could like both physicaly but one sex mentaly. We really can't tell you if you are gay or not you only know.

[nick]

how do you know your gay because every time i see a good looking guy or a girl i imagine that im doing them? im i gay or what please help me!!!
thanks for your answers
Well if you get the same reaction from both sexes it would seem more likely that you're bi than gay, but it could just be because you're going through a horny stage with raging hormones. Keep an open mind for the time being and see how your feelings for both sexes develop. Think whether you just find boys and girls good to look at or whether you'd really like to date both sexes.

[guy16]

sounds like plain old hormones to me, i wouldnt worry about it, things will work it s way out

[CuriousDestruction]

i agree, that sounds like hormones. i don't think you should worry about labeling yourself as gay or bisexual or straight. i'd just do what feels natural to you. worry about your sexuality later. it'll work out. and also, you aren't the only one that imagines doing every good looking guy or girl. a lot of teenagers do it without thinking. it's perfectly natural to have those feelings.

[Ender]

as most people said....hormones. It is truly up to you whether you are bi, gay, or straight.