So fucking confused!

[SEA_GULL]

I screwed up and she broke up with me and doesnt want to get back together with me yet she is obsessed with me her friends say. (its been 1 year since the break up)

She's always there, waiting for me at the end of class, she says she can't let go she says, she wants hugs and kisses. were ever i am, she is, but still doesnt want to go out with me again

I can't get her out of my head, I am confused, I love her? but is it my dick just talking, i dont know anymore, I hate it how she's fucking screwed me round like this!

PS we had been going out for 5 years

[Stevo 69]

Well, you could try going out somewhere with her and see how you feel, go to cinema together?

[sebbie]

In my opinion Ex's are Ex's for a reason, it did not work out the first time whatever the reason. Let sleeping dogs lie, and try to move on. During your teenage years guys/girls come and go.

[Origami]

*Shrugs* She might like you, she might just like kisses. Her friends however could be a valuable answer. ;) But I'm not going to linger on this part, instead let us focus on:
I can't get her out of my head, I am confused, I love her? but is it my dick just talking

Can't get her out of your head? Er this has happened on multiple occasions with a best friend, having someone on your mind does not always portray love. Obsession? maybe. Liking? Possibly. Love? Not guaranteed.
Love: This is entirely up to you to decide, and as you said "but is it my dick just talking," it is up to you to define the line between lust and love. Is lust wrong? Yes and no. Lust is not wrong so long as love is present, if your basis is sheer lust however then just avoid her, she'll make you happy in bed, no where else. Not a fun life. Friendship, yes. Relationship, no.
However if you can distinguish this fine line and realize that it is love, or lust with the presence of love, then you can try and talk to her about how you feel, instead of her playing with your emotions she could either back of or try another relationship. Love prevails in the end, it always does. (:

And shouldn't this be in the relationship section? o.O

[The Batman]

TWPR :arrow: R&D

[Sage]

If it's love, you wouldn't be doubtful. Move on, man.

[Aneklusmos]

What I suggest at this point is steering clear of her. She's almost definitely bad news at this point. She just wants attention. So try to let go, maybe immerse yourself in a project of some sort

[byee]

First, dicks cannot talk. That's b/c it's a well known fact that they have a one digit IQ and are responsive to one thing only. What you're describing is more complicated than that.

There are many levels of friendship, and maybe what's happening here is that the 'going out' level didn't work, but there are enough feelings to justify exploring another level. It's not binary, you know, either you're 'going out' or you ignore eachother. There's a lot in between. But, to do that, both of you haer to acknowledge those feelings and a desire to explore other relationship options.

Sometimes, when it's over, it's over, and you (both) have to let go. Sometimes, it's harder, love can do that, and you might need to talk it thru and acknowledge the feelings and see if there isn't something else. If not, then as hard as it is to have the feelings, you need to let go and move on.

[punkjake]

Shes stalking you i would tell someone :D :yeah: b4 she does something to u O_OOOOO_O that you mite like :P lol sorry for inappropriatenessness