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Kinetic
June 8th, 2009, 09:54 PM
tell me what to do or what u think shud happen this is very long soo yeah

alrite soo this year when i first took this class im 15 btw im taking a choir class and i didnt know many people but i soon got some friends but this one kid was diffrent like the first day i met him his name was andrew and he put his hand on my leg which to me is a common gesture to mess around... nyways so andrew continues to flirt n stuff and my friends started noticing and made him feel bad and told him to go back to his old grade level i didnt talk to him for like 8 months but were still in the same class which is weird but yah we didnt talk and then one day we were alone and we talked about it and we started holding hands, it didnt feel right so yeah we just continued being normal
when we had our end of the year class field trip he sits next to me and we were like sititng there and it was morning dark so he grabs my hand and i just held on and like we looked into each others eyes.. for like and hour i will skip the details about the trip but at night going back i take off my jacket and put it in the middle of us and like he takes it and folds it out and holds hands with me again and he kissed me a little bit he pretended to whisper something then he did also we did that fake make out thing when u put ur hand over your mouth which was pretty crazy but after that hes been telling me he loves me and ive been more protective over the both of us like if we were best friends going out but the big problem is i am going to another school and he suggests that we kiss but ive never kissed a guy and i dont wana go that far and im having girlfriend issues at the same time... what do u think i should do cuz im still having issues

Bougainvillea
June 8th, 2009, 10:05 PM
Wait, you think you should tell your GF about this other character. I'm sorry. What exactly is the question?

Kinetic
June 8th, 2009, 10:08 PM
basically im asking if i shud tell her or not cuz i want to be honest and were really close and i mite love her so like yah

Bougainvillea
June 8th, 2009, 10:11 PM
Well, if you feel like it's important then yes. But really, it's all you. And you're not being dishonest by not mentioning some guy you befriended. :)

byee
June 8th, 2009, 10:12 PM
Bobby, I think you need to sort out for yourself which way you want to go here privately. So, if you've made your decision to be with this guy, then I suppose you have to say soemthing to the g/f. But, if you're confused, telling her might create another problem.

It's Ok to have feelings for different people simultaneously, even if they're of a different gender. However, before you involve them, you should make a decision yourself. Having feelings is one thing, acting on them is another, and then it should really be with just one person at a time.

Bougainvillea
June 8th, 2009, 10:14 PM
IAMSAM is right. I'm pretty sure you should listen to him. :)

Kinetic
June 8th, 2009, 10:21 PM
iamsam dude u are so wise and smart i mean wow that was epically awesome the way i read that thanks u guys ill think on this and ive talked to a friend and i know what im gonna do

Bougainvillea
June 8th, 2009, 10:22 PM
Good for you :)