View Full Version : help my boyfriend is extremly horny
ackmedsgirl666
June 8th, 2009, 09:51 AM
ok so as you all know i'm dating this guy named brandon
hes a great kid fun to be around etc
i only have one problem with him
he has a problem keeping it down
either or whether hes just holding my hand or we are making out etc and its kinda getting embarassing. i know hes a guy and this usually happens alot but its kinda hard not to notice. any tips, should i like make out not so rough with him or w/e. his ex one of my bestfriends told me or more like warned me that he tends to get "hard" easily and for a while i didn;t believe her. well she proved me wrong. only for his doing because i mean it always happens to him and it especially embarassing because he knows and he has to walk around with his hand always in the spo to try and hide it. i feel kinda bad for him.. so umm any ideas on what i can try and do to get it to not occur so often?
DarkWingedAngel
June 8th, 2009, 10:28 AM
ummmmm
im sorry hun
but hes a guy
he can't stop it
it doesn't really mean hes horny
it could just mean he likes you enough that when you kiss him it sends him wild
ackmedsgirl666
June 8th, 2009, 10:29 AM
well ya true say
but i mean its annoying but i mean hes a guy and most guys can't control themselves
especially around me
Death
June 8th, 2009, 01:45 PM
That's how we are. We have a greater sex drive and from what I know, we consequently get a lot hornier than you girls. If I were you, I'd just enjoy it. ;)
tammy_x3
June 8th, 2009, 01:47 PM
That's how we are. We have a greater sex drive and from what I know, we consequently get a lot hornier than you girls. If I were you, I'd just enjoy it. ;)
You're too young to have seen or experience the girls who put men's sex drives to shame.
~.~
ackmedsgirl666
June 8th, 2009, 01:49 PM
well in a way i do enjoy seeing him like that
that way i know hes having a good time whenever hes with me
but the only thing that wrrs me is that if it gets to a point that he wants to "do" me then i dunno what i am gonna say to him
nick
June 8th, 2009, 02:14 PM
Most guys get rock hard very quickly and easily. It doesn't make him some kind of sex maniac or mean that he has less self control than the next guy. It just happens, so to be honest just try to stay cool and not make him feel bad about it.
Actually its not particularly enjoyable having a raging hardon in a situation where you cant do anything to relieve the situation, it gets uncormfortable pretty quickly.
just-another-guy
June 8th, 2009, 02:57 PM
yah hes a guy i mean it is normal for him i guess you just gotta live with it and it can be embarrassing some times like when u hug it can be hard to hide lol
byee
June 8th, 2009, 10:17 PM
Erections are normal for aroused guys. So, unless he's somehow involving you or explicitly expecting/requesting/demanding you address it, then you might just ignore it all.
If his expectations change, then you should then address it based on what you're comfortable with. For the time being, it sounds like it's a non issue for you, and you should treat it as such.
Bougainvillea
June 8th, 2009, 10:19 PM
You're too young to have seen or experience the girls who put men's sex drives to shame.
~.~
I've seen them :)
Untouched
June 9th, 2009, 09:06 PM
There's not much you can do about it, really. I don't think there's any sort of reverse Viagra pill that I'm aware of. Just enjoy it, I guess. It must be terribly embarrassing for him, but I'm sure it won't last forever.
rupertbear
June 13th, 2009, 04:47 AM
That's a normal thing will happened to a guy my young lady. The only thing you can do right now my dear is to prevent both of you go to a more serious interaction of what we called "sex". But it's up to you my dear. I only suggest that try to use condom. :D
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therollingstone949
June 13th, 2009, 10:21 AM
well he's a guy and mabey he gets excited easily. and if u guys r like making out u should like not mind and i mean face it ur not going to crawl into bed with him so who is he hurting. i know it might be a little embarising 4 him but he probally just cant help himself. he not a perv or horny, he just is sensitive.
just dont think about it its his problem. and if its a REAL big problem tell him to buy so breifs that is 1 size smaller so u cant c him hard:yes:. hope i could help. good luck PEACE
sarabear
June 14th, 2009, 12:05 AM
i have an idea,try saying this...
you: ew!gross you sicko
him: what
you: im leaving you,you might rape me or something,bye.
dstnyisurs
June 14th, 2009, 12:06 AM
He can't help it lovie. It's probably not anything you're doing specifically. If he gets hard easily then he just gets excited easily. You could breath and who knows? Maybe it would get him wild. Just don't worry. It seems he's super turned on by you.
punkjake
June 14th, 2009, 01:46 AM
That's how we are. We have a greater sex drive and from what I know, we consequently get a lot hornier than you girls. If I were you, I'd just enjoy it. ;)
Agree :D Well just go with the flow and PS not all guys are horny sex machines :mad: just me and some other ppl on VT XD:whoops:
dstnyisurs
June 14th, 2009, 11:59 AM
Agree :D Well just go with the flow and PS not all guys are horny sex machines :mad: just me and some other ppl on VT XD:whoops:
Ahahaha, nice on the self identity.
That made me laugh my ass off.
Hahahaha.
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