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Trumpeter_2911
June 8th, 2009, 05:57 AM
ohk well i dont know where to start, (if this is a stupid post let me know and ill delete it),
anyway,
i have a girlfriend, but her best friend told me a few days ago she was gonna break it off with me, and i really still like her :(, but at the same time im also very attracted to this guy (im bi), but he lives fairly far away and long distance relationships dont work i dont think, and im totally confused as to what to do, do i break it off before she breaks it off with me for this guy or wait til she breaks it off with me?, either way im gonna feel shit because of it :(,
please only serious reponses would be appreciated, (btw i remind again, if this is a stupid thread ill delete it)

Rutherford The Brave
June 8th, 2009, 06:07 AM
If she breaks up with you, then thats ok, sometimes things aren't made to be. Let's say she does, what you should do is take it in stride, and look (i mean look real hard for the right one) If you think that other boy is the one befriend him, and get to know him. If you feel that isn't worth it, take some time, look around and be yourself.

byee
June 8th, 2009, 10:19 PM
You should follow your heart here.

As a cautionary note, rumours are crap until they're fact. So, regardless of what you might heard second hand about her 'intentions', until she actually says or does something, as hard as it is, you should ignore the rumour.