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Huskyboy132
June 7th, 2009, 03:49 PM
Well... I'm gay and there is this one person.. my best friend.. :P. And so I like him. He knows I'm gay.. its just that he is really awesome so i don't want to ruin our realtionship but I wanna ask him if wants to like... go out with me.. I don't know if he is gay... any tips? Thanks in advance... :)

Mr. Awesome
June 7th, 2009, 04:10 PM
just remember that if you do it could possibly ruin your relationship. if you can risk that then by all means go ahead. good luck and i hope it works out for you

Tenke-kun
June 8th, 2009, 12:00 AM
i got the same problem man, i still dont know if i should do it... but i been thinking about it.

Bougainvillea
June 8th, 2009, 02:54 AM
Jump :)
Ask him. If he's really your best friend, he'd be cool about it. :)

Renegade.
June 8th, 2009, 03:00 AM
Just go for it! :)

maeniel
June 8th, 2009, 07:52 AM
I fell for mine, totally went for it, and I think he likedme, but he was too afraid of what other people thought....so I was let down...

But if you really feel theres a chance...I say go for it...or you'll wish you had

nick
June 8th, 2009, 02:41 PM
I really dont see that there is any way other than to explain and ask him right out. But obviously if you do that there's a risk that he'll be upset and that might ruin your friendship. So, its a question of whether you prefer to play safe and keep things as they are, or take the risk & go for gold.

appel123
June 12th, 2009, 04:46 PM
u should do it

IAMWILL
June 12th, 2009, 06:31 PM
Always glad to help :)

If he was also gay, he would show that towards you. So ask yourself and recall, has he? Its hard to tell if hes just being friendly or likes you, but you will be able to find out, its just one of those things that happens.

TheMan.
June 20th, 2009, 09:32 AM
Just go for it. Like you said you and him have a great realtionship, so you should ask him. When you ask him he should be cool about it cause he knows your gay. If he turns you down don't worry, there can always be another day to ask him again, and maybe you never will because you'll find someone else you like. Good Luck:D

CestDan
June 20th, 2009, 10:16 PM
Well, first I suggest you to be analyzer, I mean, look at him, the way that he looks at you, the way that he talks to you and somethings like those. I f you feel that there can be something... Just do it. Don't doubt it and go ahead.

Now, If you are not really sure about it, just take your time and think very carefully the things, and why not?? Perhaps if you are so confident ask him anyway.

kyle95
June 21st, 2009, 02:02 AM
dont ruin ur frndshp mate. whats ur hurry? conversely why shld it matter 2 u if he's str8 or not? a mate's a mate. if smthng develops, fine. if it doesnt, he's still ur mate

Cromm
June 25th, 2009, 03:16 AM
Instead of asking him out directly, why not ask if he's gay? If he's striaght, he'll likely be less taken aback by that question than being asked out by another guy.

~ CC

orangecounty
June 25th, 2009, 06:59 AM
Well obviously he is tolerant of gay people if he is still your friend after knowing your sexuality. In that case, I would say go for it.

TODAYisTHEday
June 25th, 2009, 07:55 AM
You should tell him how you feel.. If he truely loves you as a friend or maybe he even loves you as more than a friend. He would understand how you feel and still be the same with you. :)