Need suggestions for stuff to do

[Littleman]

Ok, well theres this girl i really like (shes the love of my life:wub:) and i recently told her i love her :D I consider her very close, and she considers me very close, we even talked about relationships and what it would be like with us. We even talked about hugging and kissing :D (my best plan to get her to hug me was to get her to try and tackle me, which she wants to try) I invited her to go with me on a nature walk tomarrow (i went and saw a movie on Monday with her (star trek 2009) and she loved it) and next thing i know shes asking me if im asking her out :whoops: So i said yes :) and we might be going on a walk tomarrow. (Note: Even though we are really close, she doesnt consider herself my girlfriend, but she is moving toward that)

Now, I am all out of ideas for things to do, I have already taken her out to the movies, and i plan on going on a walk.

So what should i do? (note: im not allowd to take her out for dinner or anything, we are only 14. I need simple things, things that we can do with out much hassle. i dont mind if it cost money, ive been paying for all her stuff anyway with my last $100)

Thanks in advance,

Ryan (A.K.A Littleman)









(also mods, if this is in the wrong place please move, thank you)

[Aneklusmos]

Have anything that could be considered amusement like nearby? Like a carnival, or amusement park? how about a beach or something where you could go swimming? Anything that you wouldn't do normally could be considered a date. and don't be afraid to do the same thing twice after a reasonable time. like a movie twice a month. just not every other day

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

Like Aneklusmos said, don't be afraid to do the same thing more than once. I always say that bowling is a great date idea, especially early in the game when you're still getting used to the idea of seeing the person in a new way. It's fun, low-pressure, and you have a chance to actually talk and have a really good time. Ice-skating is also fun, or roller-skating, even mini golf. It depends on what's accessible for you, and what sounds like fun.

Going on a walk sounds like a fun plan. Are either of you into hiking (or willing to give it a shot)? You wouldn't have to do anything overly strenuous, but I always find hiking to be a lot of fun. When I'm with my boyfriend, we often just do a lot of walking around--we walk everywhere. It makes a trip across town more interesting, and it's good for your general physique. xP Nature walks are even better, because they get you out of your usual element and into something a little more, well, natural. If this walk is a hit, maybe look into other places you two could go walking together. Plan a picnic or something.

In general, anything that sounds fun and is within reason is worth a try. Ask for her input, too! Being a gentleman doesn't have to mean doing all the thinking by yourself. I'm sure she'd be glad to be a part of the decision-making process, and she may have some good ideas of her own.

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[Littleman]

The cloest form of amusement park i know of is Kings Dominion, and thats like 2 or 3 hours away, we plan on doing that this summer with our teacher as a "Class Trip" (we were the only graduates, going into 9th grade, woohoo!) I am considering asking my parents if they are ok with me just randomly walking around town (we live in a small town, she is only like 5 minutes away by car, 10 by bike, 20 by walking) Yes, we are both into hiking, although she has asthma, she still loves hiking. I never considered bolwing or ice shaking (she loves both) As for mini-golf, theres a place just down the road from here we could go to :) She tends to be really shy when it comes to suggesting ideas, but we have already planned a few things, such as she invited me on her dads boat for a boating trip. She loves doing things together so anything that our parents are ok with would work (there arent any set rules, just general, like some parent has to go with us)

[Aneklusmos]

That all sounds good! Good luck!

[byee]

Awwww.......Ryan, this sounds all so nice! I'm really happy for you, I know how good this all feels. *Cries*.

I think when you really like someone (regardless of what you're 'officially' or 'unofficially' calling it), the activity isn't really what's important, it's just being together. So, don't fret too much about it, b/c I'm really sure she's just delighted to merely be with you!

So, taking walks, bike rides, going to the mall, walking in a park, going for ice cream, sitting on a bench and hanging out, are all Ok b/c they allow the two of you to do what you really like to do.....just be together.

[rubidoux]

You don't have to do big amazing things all the time, especially since your age makes that pretty much impossible. When I was younger, I would just hang out at the boys I dated's house or he'd come over mine and watch TV. We'd go do stuff sometimes, but at 14 you're pretty limited.

It's about spending time together, not what you do specifically.

[Littleman]

ok, guys and girls, i am considering asking her to be my girlfriend, she has admitted that she likes me. and shes the best girl i have ever met. we already talked about relationships and so forth, and she said that one with me really wouldnt be that bad.

So, yes or no, should i ask the girl of my dreams, who ive know for 2 1/2 - 3 years, to be my girlfriend? :wub:

[Gumleaf]

if you think the probabilities of her saying yes are good and if you're willing to potentially risk your friendship by doing so then i would say yes.

[Littleman]

if you think the probabilities of her saying yes are good and if you're willing to potentially risk your friendship by doing so then i would say yes.

she has actually hinted at saying yes