Girlfriend Touching

[JamesMan]

Ok,
My girlfriend likes to feel my penis while were hugging (Btw thanks for the advice before, she thinks its really big) and I have to stop hugging her because I feel that I'm going to come.

Any tips on making it last longer? :confused:

*EDIT*
I'm only thirteen, it would be stupid if I was older.

[soggytoast]

let her touch it, she likes it....you'll like it.


cumming is good.

[Tyler_Smash]

You gotta stay relaxed.
Wear 2 condoms at all times, so that way she isn't touching so much of it at once.

[MisterAndrews]

Practice, practice, practice my friend... it increases stamina. Thats how you last longer.
Or, distract her from touching it for a minute or two.

[MisterAndrews]

Or just fail at life.

Personally I prefer that one.

If her touching you gets you off, you're need a loooooooooot of conditioning for sex.

I know you're new but can you please say something helpful... telling people they're shit generally doesn't help with self esteem. Say something positive and make everyone happier. Thats what sites like this are for.

And welcome to VT.

[Ripplemagne]

I know you're new but can you please say something helpful... telling people they're shit generally doesn't help with self esteem. Say something positive and make everyone happier. Thats what sites like this are for.

And welcome to VT.

Or you can acknowledge that someone is doing something wrong instead of coddling them and assuring them that an obvious problem is okay. I understand what you're saying, but hollow assurance is counter-productive to someone's psychological well being.

[soggytoast]

I've heard that putting a sock on it helps.

i do that to keep warm

[The Freed]

Stop then hammer time.
Translation:
Do the stop, then wait then go method.

[Mekipedia]

I know you're new but can you please say something helpful... telling people they're shit generally doesn't help with self esteem. Say something positive and make everyone happier. Thats what sites like this are for.

And welcome to VT.

You do know kegel exercises helps your stamina by a lot, right? Google it, bro.

Also, if you wanna last longer, brah, try masturbating 3 - 5 hours prior to getting your willy touched. lol. It sort of "numbs" it for a recharging period.

[MisterAndrews]

Im well aware of the fact that people need to know that they have a problem, but if you tell someone they are doing something wrong then generally it is a good idea to say how they can improve it and i think youll find that 'Holier Than Thou' gave 2 responses that did not move the topic on at all... i was just suggesting that he gives advice as well as pointing out failings.

[Mekipedia]

Im well aware of the fact that people need to know that they have a problem, but if you tell someone they are doing something wrong then generally it is a good idea to say how they can improve it and i think youll find that 'Holier Than Thou' gave 2 responses that did not move the topic on at all... i was just suggesting that he gives advice as well as pointing out failings.

Most of what he says, for better or worse, appeals to a human being's "common sense" module.

You'd be surprised how easily people realize stuff on their own.

[nick]

Ok,
My girlfriend likes to feel my penis while were hugging (Btw thanks for the advice before, she thinks its really big) and I have to stop hugging her because I feel that I'm going to come.

Any tips on making it last longer? :confused:
It seems to me that the answers above are either unhelpful or just downright silly. You're not going to walk around all day with your dick in a condom or with a sock on it. (What is this fascination some guys have with putting socks on their dick, gross)

Its a natural reaction, you're a horny guy, its new and exciting and hard to keep control. Its not the end of the world if you cum in your pants, but it would be embarassing and messy, so I can understand not wanting that to happen.

I dont think there's any answer, other than asking her to go slow, and letting her know when you need a cooling off period. She should take it as a compliment.

Sorry I cant offer any more practical help than that

[MisterAndrews]

I'm going to leave this here, its getting off topic...

Anyway, these are good pieces of advice. They both improve stamina.

Stop then hammer time.
Translation:
Do the stop, then wait then go method.

Like I said, kegels pl0x.

[The Joker]

You gotta stay relaxed.
Wear 2 condoms at all times, so that way she isn't touching so much of it at once.

Horrible idea. The friction between the two will cause one, or both to break.

[Ripplemagne]

It seems to me that the answers above are either unhelpful or just downright silly. You're not going to walk around all day with your dick in a condom or with a sock on it. (What is this fascination some guys have with putting socks on their dick, gross)

Its a natural reaction, you're a horny guy, its new and exciting and hard to keep control. Its not the end of the world if you cum in your pants, but it would be embarassing and messy, so I can understand not wanting that to happen.

I dont think there's any answer, other than asking her to go slow, and letting her know when you need a cooling off period. She should take it as a compliment.

Sorry I cant offer any more practical help than that

Uh huh...

Anyway, research kegels. 'Tis an effective preventive measure for premature ejaculation.

[MisterAndrews]

Uh huh...

Anyway, research kegels. 'Tis an effective preventive measure for premature ejaculation.

You've said.... 3 or 4 times. Im sure he will.

[JamesMan]

Ok thanks guys

[Eddie22]

Theres nothing wrong with having a little cum come out when she touches your penis. I would consider myself lucky if my girlfriend touched my penis. Just wear an extra pair of underwear to soak it up.

[byee]

I'm not sure what's been going on here, some of the advice is just pointless. Wearing socks and condoms? C'mon. I agree with Nick, it doesnlt really address the problem and might actually create a new, more embarassing one. You'd have to explain the sock on your dinky!

The issue is really communication. For a while, it might feel ok, but at some point you feel like you''re going to lose it, so why not ask her to stop? Your backing away from hugging her doesn't address that issue, and prevents both of you from enjoying something that's close and nice and not sexual.

[kipper]

when you masturbate just as your about to come stop and repeat as many times as you can it should help after a while

[tyler69]

jack off befor u two go out