View Full Version : should i tell anyone?
supercharm100
June 5th, 2009, 10:56 PM
is it okay to want people to know if your bi, gay, or a lesbian.. or is it only sup post to be your own business?:confused:
tomm
June 5th, 2009, 11:29 PM
Say to the ones you really trust... You will need to talk about it sometime. ;D
Ardiys
June 5th, 2009, 11:36 PM
Yeah that's fine.
:)
Only tell people you really trust at first, or people you really want to tell and feel comfortable telling, because it's possible that it could end badly.
It's completely your decision though.
Good luck (:
chris__robin
June 6th, 2009, 09:52 AM
you can choose to be as out as you want to be, depends how comfortable u are about it.
Leprachaun
June 8th, 2009, 05:40 AM
well it depends on how you feel about it, personally I could never tell anyone just because of the type of people i'm around but what i would advise is to just tell your closest friends, people you can trust and rely on.
notsure101
June 8th, 2009, 08:10 PM
It depends on yourself what you want to do
dstnyisurs
June 8th, 2009, 08:20 PM
It depends on how you look at it, the enviorment you're in, and how out you wanna be.
guacamole24
June 9th, 2009, 05:56 AM
you can choose to be as out as you want to be, depends how comfortable u are about it.
Agreed. But you have to keep in mind, hiding it is a very thing to do.
tommo
June 9th, 2009, 06:20 AM
i have been bi since i was bout 14 im now 19 and only just coming out about it to my g/f and friends and i regret waiting this long im just lucky everyone has accepted it
Sammeh
June 9th, 2009, 05:46 PM
If you come from a religious background, then it could be risky to tell parents, in that or any other case though, I'd recommend you only tell very close friends at the start :)
And, if you want people to know then thats ok, it dosen't have to be just your business, indeed that can be hard... The best thing I did was tell my mates I'm bi, its improved my life so much...
Wonder.
June 10th, 2009, 01:06 PM
You can if you really want to. It feels good to finally tell someone. I have told one person only. You might want to tell someone of the opposite sex first though because it would be less weird. If you tell the same sex, they might think that you will start hitting on them and ignore you.
nick
June 10th, 2009, 01:28 PM
Its up to you to choose when and who you want to come out to, until then its nobody elses business.
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