I hate being the way I am

[ackmedsgirl666]

why did god have to punish me and make me like girls
all it has caused me is grief and stress
i hate what my sexuality does to me. it leaves me so depressed
my first girlfriend that i had a few months back is not the way she used to be
she changed and everything now seems harder
when i talk 2 her it seems like shes ignoring me
when i ask her if she wants to hang she kinda pushes me away
i mean i like the experiences i got to have with my first same sex relationship it was interesting to me
but why do i have to be this way.
is there any way that i can physcially change my sexuality..
ideas???

[supercharm100]

u reely shoodnt b so hard on ur self bro.. sum peepl wernt ment 4 each other, im prety sur ther is sum1 betr 4 u bro... iv had tons of situations like this, i wil totaly do my best to help u! =)

[Ardiys]

No, there isn't.
You're stuck with your sexuality for the rest of your life.
However, things will definitely get better. I was in your state of mind last year, and I'm somewhat glad that I'm gay right now because even though it makes my life a lot harder, I've met a lot of really awesome people. And I know that I can't do anything about my sexuality, and I'm gonna be with it for my entire life. So I might as well embrace it now, no matter how much I want or don't want to.

[Schon]

no you cannont, you are born that way, much as you cannot change your personality. it is what it is, and you cannot change it.

[Flutterfly]

Honestly, if you don't want to be gay, you don't have to. Just start dating a guy, see how you like it. You aren't forced to like girls. Just try going out with a guy. You never know. Maybe you'll like that better than you thought you would.

[byee]

You are who you are, there's no way that can be changed. It can be understood and accepted better, though. But to do that, you might need to find someone to talk with, a therapist. And, GBLT groups in your area, too.

It's roughest during adolescence, b/c there's less tolerance for 'difference', but as you get older you'll find that people are more accepting and tolerating of who you are. People just get comfortable with themselves, and in so doing, get more comfortable with others, even if they're 'different'. So, hang in there, and maybe get that therapy to help you address the more immediate concerns of getting to that point as relatively unscathed as possible.

[The Freed]

"why did god have to punish me and make me like girls"
God had nothing to do with this. ~Laughs but smiles~
Why do you hate the way you are?
There is nothing to be ashamed of.
Don't view yourself as the bigots do.
Be happy about who you are.

[Modus Operandi]

Short of a sex change, you CANNOT CHANGE YOUR SEXUALITY. by the sex change, I mean that if you were to become a guy, you would be, by definition, Heterosexual.

Sry if that offends anyone.