it begins again

[WelshLad]

it's been a week since i dumped my gf (which i'm still sure it was right to do) and some of you may remember that i kissed another girl on new year's eve. She was the one who initatied it because i've always felt strongly against people cheating on other people but i kissed her back.
This girl is my best girl friend but now i really fancy her and have done for a while. She fancied me while i was going out with my gf (this is going back a month or two) but now it seems she's totally forgot about me and the kiss because she doesn't seem to talk to me anymore.

I really think it could work between us, she's cute and got a fantastic personality and great sense of humour. please help guys :frown:

[Elokyn]

hmm...maybe it was more challenging for her before? Personally I've never felt this but I've heard a lot of girl say they want what they can't have. Just the challenge of trying to get you when you "belonged" to someone else.

OOORR Maybe it's akward for her now. Maybe because you're not taken she knows something could happen and she's just shy about it.

The best advice I can give you is to talk to her. Maybe not like "hey I like you do you like me" but just initiate a convo. Try talking about something she does that interests you or ask her out "as friends" somewhere so you can talk.
hope that helps a little...
Good luck with everything Lloyd :hug: :)

[RowanVer.3.0]

Talk to her, see how she feels about shit. Or just ask her out, you've got nothing to lose except maybe a bit of dignity-but you'll get over it. I did.

[WelshLad]

You did? What happened rowan?

[RowanVer.3.0]

Well, I asked two girls out. I liked both of them for a while, and they'd show hints of liking me back from time to time. So I was like "whatever.. I'm sick of this, I'll ask them out". Turns out one of them wasn't interested and the other liked me a bit(I think she just said that though)and liked some other guy more. It sucked, it even got me into a slight depression for a day or two.

But I'm glad I did, now I don't have to dwell on them like before. Sure, I still like them a bit, and it does suck. But, that's life, deal with it. There's some girls that like me that can't force me to like them, so I can't force anyone to like me either. Atleast now I know so I can't be like "what if....".

Ask her, it'll suck, and you'll wish you didn't afterwards, but atleast you'll know.