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[just-another-guy]

i was wondering peoples thoughts on how much of a relationship should be physical. should there be no physical actions other than like hugging and kissing and making out? is being physical part of a relationship? I'm just kinda confused right now any any help would be grate.:lol:

[Aneklusmos]

I think it all depends on age. If your, say 13, holding hands, kissing and stuff is good. But if your like 16 some heavier things could start happening. It also depends on the people in the relationship and how emotionally prepared for something

[IAMWILL]

I agree (as almost always) with Caleb here. Relationships don't have to be physical, some people prefer it, some people don't, and it varies depending on the age. For instance, some people are only in relationships for the physical part. Obviously, these are people that don't deserve to be in a relationship. Other people don't care if anything is physical in a relationship, they like/love the person for who they are. Some cultures even illegalize physical contact for certain ages. Most times, people that aren't in a relationship for the physcial part are good people, but lot always. (for instance, some people are only in relationships for money or getting someone else jealous).

So ya, I guess that's my take on it.

[Lady_Chaos]

I agree with the above statements. It really does depend on age, maturity, type of person, and what each person wants. I agree with Will on the fact that if people are in a relationship for just the physical stuff, they shouldn't even be in a relationship. I think being physical is okay, as long as its in moderation. For example, a couple that spends most of their time talking and getting to know each other rather than being physical all the time, are most likely to have a good relationship and prevent more fights (in my opinion). But then, if one partner is wanting more than the other it could get a little messy... hmm... It really is up to the people in the relationship to decide whether or not they want to be physical.

That's how I see it... =/

[just-another-guy]

thank you all so much this is a huge help thank you