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ShatteredWings
June 4th, 2009, 07:44 PM
Okay.
Long story short
i have a girlfriend
she has an ex

before we started dating
me her and her ex were kinda friends.

Yeah, the other girl was a *little* manipulative, but i mean..it wasn't intrustive. she'd try to keep us apart a bit.. but ya know i figured it's just b/c she was a *little* jealous.. b/c they were dating.

well you get the picture.

They broke up... seemd pretty frendly enough. I ended up mediating a few fights, but i mean.. yeah.

A few months later.. me and my gf started dating. miss ex got JEALOUS as fuck. ok yeah.
I give the ex a second chance at being a friend
she lies, says she isn't jealous
later to find out she's MORE jealous


Today i found out that she's trying to push us apart by saying she like me or w/e.
i kinda got pissed and demanded an explination
she's like 'yeah i'm really jealous of you and want her back'

Seroiuslly.its NOT going to happen at this point

Should i stop trying to be a friend and just ignore her.. or should i try to be nice still?



Grrr
frusterating.
remind me again why i even said yes?


afterthought: Yes, this is the SHORT version

IAMWILL
June 4th, 2009, 07:56 PM
Well, I think you need to talk to your girlfriend about this! Even if her ex might be one of her good friends, she will understand if your her girlfriend, she'll probably stand by you. Dealing with x's is a major bitch (not trying to make a retarded joke), but even if the x is one of your best friends, it has to be dealt with accordingly. I'm sure you know how to talk to your girlfriend about this, so I'll leave this to you.

ShatteredWings
June 4th, 2009, 08:05 PM
she knows.
actually, she's the one who pointed out what i was already suspicious of.

Gahh
i'm kinda pissed off tho
i mean
no bitch is gonna keep us apart like that. .. hell our parents can't keep us apart (her mom knows, mine doesn't).
but yeah
frusterating.

IAMWILL
June 4th, 2009, 08:17 PM
Oh, well then you need to talk to the ex. That's the only way you going to end this. Just sit her down, and explain to her your feelings (sad ones first), then tell her that she's not going to break you two up, the only thing she's doing is lessening her chances by being a bitch. No ones cold hearted enough to not care.