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catey
June 4th, 2009, 01:31 PM
Okay so, yesterday in class my very very special friend started to touch me in my very very special places. And I kinda liked it.
I kinda liked the thought of other people watching us.

I like boys, but I liked it when she touched me, Is that normal????
Rogue27
June 4th, 2009, 02:03 PM
Only you can tell of you are a lesbian. But I think of is normal because a lot of girls experiment with their sexuality. What happens happens for a reason so do what you feel is right.
BeautifulSilence
June 4th, 2009, 03:32 PM
Moved to Teen Sexuality.

No one can determine your sexuality for you, but I personally don't think it's too much to worry about right now.

Just go along with what you're comfortable and if you find yourself liking it, does it matter what your orientation is?
Θάνατος
June 4th, 2009, 03:38 PM
Okay so, yesterday in class my very very special friend started to touch me in my very very special places. And I kinda liked it.
I kinda liked the thought of other people watching us.

I like boys, but I liked it when she touched me, Is that normal????

It is normal to get aroused by getting touched on a very special place. Just because it felt good and you got aroused doesn't mean you are gay or bi.

I think that this is mostly couriosity but it you want to act on your feelings there is nothing wrong with experimenting. There is also nothing wrong with being gay, bi or straight.
catey
June 4th, 2009, 04:08 PM
But the thing is is that if I am bi or a lesibian my parents will beat me....... I don't know what to do
dstnyisurs
June 9th, 2009, 03:47 PM
Then don't tell your parents. Simple as that.
Well, it's never good to keep stuff from your parents, but if you are in that extreme of a situation then it may be best to keep any not-hetero feelings from them. =/
Effie
June 9th, 2009, 06:01 PM
your sexuallity isn't only based on sexual feelings. You are only lesbian if you find relationships with girls make you happier than with guys. IF you're bi then you enjoy dating both men and women... as in you are sexual arroused by both and find it possible to fall in love with both. Being straight means you only wish to date men. You are arroused by them naturally (without someone physically touching you) and you wish to only fall in love with men.
Does that help any?