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jetbluerocks
June 4th, 2009, 12:15 AM
My friends ditch me and I get mad, but I still want to be friends with them...HELP AHHHHHHHH!

Blue63
June 4th, 2009, 12:27 AM
Do they do it constantly? Because that could be a sign that sadly, they don't want to be your friends (Sorry, not trying to be harsh) and you may have better luck, and more fun just trying to find new friends. But if they do it just once or once in a while, I wouldn't worry about it, a lot of times ditching is just sort of a spur of the moment, I'm bored let's run away, thing.

Oblivion
June 4th, 2009, 12:30 AM
I agree. Sadly, if they often are ditching you, they probably don't want to be your friend. Finding new friends would benefit you a lot, and make it more fun for you. If they do it every so often, or it doesn't seem intentional, I'd either just ignore it, as it's probably nothing, or ask them about it. If you are accusatory they they probably won't get mad.

sebbie
June 6th, 2009, 03:45 PM
As the above 2 posters have said, people who ditch you are not your friends and probably don't want to be. Go out and try to meet some new people (I know this is easier said than done though). Clinging on to them won't do you any good or them.

The Freed
June 6th, 2009, 03:56 PM
Yeah you're just something to laugh at for them.
Try ditching them.
Just do it properly.

Project Delta
June 9th, 2009, 04:20 AM
Like everyone has said, if they are ditching you often, then they are not worthy of your awesomeness :)
It happened to me a lot, and then i just gave up and settled for my one REAL friend. And he is there if i need him pretty much all the time.