WHAT!?! Help Me

[master man]

I posted a thread early on about me and my girlfriend wanting to have sex but i did not i said no and broke it off but she manged to hold me down (Im not very strong) and she got my pants off and tryed to do it anyway i kicked her off and got away and now shes pressing charges for assult what do I do:eek::eek::eek::eek::(:(:(:(

[Tubbsyclone]

get a good lawyer. ur case is ganna b self defense. I guarrenty that it wont b that big of a deal u probably will get off but if u dont it will b a slap on the wrist type of thing

[Commander Thor]

As long as the judge/jury knows she sexually assulted you, you'll win the case hands down.

[The Joker]

I really hope this is just a good imagination. But, she will probably drop the case.

[byee]

1) Tell your folks immediately, and make sure they are with you if the police want to speak to you.

2) If/when you are questioned, tell the truth.

[John]

I really hope this is just a good imagination. But, she will probably drop the case.

you hope?
i know. i dislike it when people lie like this.

[Ender]

wait, wait, wait, wait, how old are you exactly? I do a lot of work with law and this could b important to the case.

[just-another-guy]

just get a good lawyer and you should be all set its self defense so you shouldn't have a prob just talk to ur parents and also it will prob be a slap on the wrist kinda thing. i am afraid of this kinda thing wit my gf i am afraid that if we break up her mom (who is over protective like when we started talking me and my gf that is she was not even suppose to talk to guys and shes in high school same age as me) is going to say i sexually harassed her or raped her and charge me wit it. but i just go with what happens happens and you should be all set

[Oblivion]

Explain exactly what happened. Talk to the police, and don't let her being female have anything to do with how they take your case. She attempted to essentially rape and assault you, so you kicked her off and got away. It's self defense, plus, you should be the one pressing charges, not her. Tell the truth, and make up nothing. Don't let embarrassment make you get in trouble.

[coodood]

I would be more emmbarresed to hit a girl than to be raped by one.

[Tenke-kun]

thats kinda scary
but yes, every thing everyone else put up is exactly right.

i dont mean to sound offenceive, but what she did, that'd almost like...thats disrespectful and i wouldnt really want to be her boyfriend if she did that, but thats just....(word meaning in other peoples shoes)
although the feeling of being used is kind of a fetish for me...and i'd only ask for it after i know they can fully respect me and my feelings.

[mathew911]

Charge her for rape.

[guacamole24]

Explain exactly what happened. Talk to the police, and don't let her being female have anything to do with how they take your case. She attempted to essentially rape and assault you, so you kicked her off and got away. It's self defense, plus, you should be the one pressing charges, not her. Tell the truth, and make up nothing. Don't let embarrassment make you get in trouble.

Agreed. I'm sorry that happened 2 u.

[TrekRider0320]

I would file sexual assult and rape charges against her. I think she will drop the charges though because if she was smart she would realize she wouldn't win.

Edit: If what your telling us is the truth.

[CuriousDestruction]

i agree with a lot of what everyone else here said. just remember, depending on where you are and what the circumstances were you may get a lot of bull for this. they may try to say that women can't sexually assault men or something like that. this is ridiculous. she did sexually assault you. you made the right move pushing her away. get a good lawyer. you should be fine. just be ready because this is the type of case that can get contreversial.

[tyler69]

have sex with her

[nick]

have sex with her
That's such an insensitive answer. I too hope this story is not true, but it could be, and its definitely a sexual assault or attempted rape.

I had a feeling that sooner or later someone would chip in with an answer suggesting that this is every guys dream, and you should have enjoyed it, but thats stupid. Why should you enjoy being forced to do something you dont want to? You may have no control over whether you get an erection, but that doesnt give anyone else the right to touch it, let alone attempt to mount it, without your consent. A guy has a right to choose what he does with that thing.

[Donkey]

You defended yourself because she was attempting rape. You go there and argue your case, and you'll win easily.

[Requin]

Moving to R & D.

[dwindala]

I posted a thread early on about me and my girlfriend wanting to have sex but i did not i said no and broke it off but she manged to hold me down (Im not very strong) and she got my pants off and tryed to do it anyway i kicked her off and got away and now shes pressing charges for assult what do I do:eek::eek::eek::eek::(:(:(:(

Thats a damn shame.

[Prestonium]

I had a feeling that sooner or later someone would chip in with an answer suggesting that this is every guys dream, and you should have enjoyed it, but thats stupid. Why should you enjoy being forced to do something you dont want to? You may have no control over whether you get an erection, but that doesnt give anyone else the right to touch it, let alone attempt to mount it, without your consent. A guy has a right to choose what he does with that thing.[/QUOTE]

Hehe nicely put.

[Rogue27]

Just tell the judge the truth. You don't want this to mess up you life. Just tell your parents and get a good lawyer. You just need to go with the fact that she sexually assulted you and was going to rape you and that you defended your self. no shame in that. Good luck.

[Cromm]

you hope?
i know. i dislike it when people lie like this.
I'm glad I'm not the only one who can sniff flaming troll poop a mile away!