Im so stuck,hes going to kill me!

[derkderpderp]

Hey dudes,erm i'm sort of stuck,my father beats me like crazy,he does it when either nobody is in the house or there is an empty room,and our house is huge so theres a lot of empty rooms,but he locks me in these rooms,and beats me!he's already broken my ribs,dislocated my left shoulder broken both arms a number of times, and he's bled me!damn it i'm weak,i'm stuck,i don't know what to do,because if i try getting away and telling someone again then the repercussions are going to be so much worse than my last beating.owww please someone help me!
:(

[Loislane]

I don't understand. Why haven't you're parents/siblings/friends/school seen the bruises?

[Jalin]

Aww. :(

Try telling him that he's hurting you.. and that you can't take it anymore.

Tell the cops; get him in jail.

Move in with a friend for a little, just to scare him.

I'm really sorry about this!<3
:[

[derkderpderp]

With the bruises and marks he has reasons,like i was helping him at his steel workplace in the workshop and something happened,i cant tell anyone because im scared of what he WILL do,he controls my life.
And he's not going to listen if i tell him to stop.i gave that idea up ages ago.but thank you anyway.ow.i cant move in with a friend,he wont let me and im only 15!ow.
Oh and by the way Jalin,please dont be sorry,its not your fault i have a physco for a father.
:(

[Jalin]

With the bruises and marks he has reasons,like i was helping him at his steel workplace in the workshop and something happened,i cant tell anyone because im scared of what he WILL do,he controls my life.
And he's not going to listen if i tell him to stop.i gave that idea up ages ago.but thank you anyway.ow.i cant move in with a friend,he wont let me and im only 15!ow.
Oh and by the way Jalin,please dont be sorry,its not your fault i have a physco for a father.
:(
You deserve the best.

Just runaway to a friends house. Don't tell him where you're going.
Just go to school, and don't go back home- but go somewhere safe.

Tell the principal at your school, he could probably care for you while things get situated.

[derkderpderp]

Ow,thank you but it just wouldn't work.it really wouldn't,he drives me to school,walks me INTO the school then departs,he picks me up at lunchtimes-hes so strict i have to wait with a teacher who collects me after my class so i dont go anywhere,i really cant do anything i can think of.oww.but dude,thank you.
=(

[phoebefreak]

Hey dudes,erm i'm sort of stuck,my father beats me like crazy,he does it when either nobody is in the house or there is an empty room,and our house is huge so theres a lot of empty rooms,but he locks me in these rooms,and beats me!he's already broken my ribs,dislocated my left shoulder broken both arms a number of times, and he's bled me!damn it i'm weak,i'm stuck,i don't know what to do,because if i try getting away and telling someone again then the repercussions are going to be so much worse than my last beating.owww please someone help me!
:(


What your father is doing is wrong, i feel deeply for you. Call childline. Get help, you need it. This is an awful thing for your father to do and he should be sent to jail. Don't be afraid to speak up for yourself. x
:(

[derkderpderp]

Ow dude,thank you.but its as simple as this-he does not let me out of his sight,i cant call childline,he logs everything,so he will know.ow.thank you for your advice,but i just dont know what to do,it makes me want to just kill myself and end my pain permanently.ow.im 15 and my stupid father has done so much to me that im feeling suicidal.ow.

=(

[Cloud]

while at school
go to the headteacher
tell them
get them to call the police
and when he comes to get you
have him arrested

you have plenty of evidence just show them the bruises and other marks hes made

[derkderpderp]

Dude,thanks but ive tried,my dad and my headmaster are close friends,always have been.the last time i went to him was about 2 and a half years ago,he just told my dad,i got put in hospital.thanks but i dont think it will work,but thank you.ow

[Cloud]

not got any teachers you can trust? they can jsut call the cops for you

[derkderpderp]

He knows everyone,hes even a school governor and part time invigilator

[Cloud]

grab a phone and just run
or if you got a bike even better just get away to your friends house and call the cops from there

[Loislane]

I don't mean this to sound rude, but I'm sure you DO have someone to tell. It doesn't matter if you're father and headmaster are friends. You go, cry to him, and explain the situation. So be it, If you get put into hospital again, you can tell nurses in hospital what's going on. You need to refuse to go home.
I'm not sure what else to suggest. How many teachers are there in you're school? Probably a hell of a lot like mine.

If you're father logs everything, are you going to get away with this thread?

[derkderpderp]

I can get away with this thread because im viewing and altering it using an operating system on my memory stick,which he doesn't know about.and anyway the last time i got help he was only given counselling,then we moved,then he started again.thanks anyway

[Cloud]

just call the cops and show em what hes done to you. they will stop him

[Rogue27]

I'm so sorry. If you can mabey when he is sleeping run away. If you don't get out he will kill you. You have to do something. Go to a guidance counselor call the police or go to a friends house. I hate hearing that you have to live like this. Pm me so we can talk if you want.

[alsoknownas]

I just cant see how he seems to have all bases covered?
All the teacher's on side? A teacher has a duty of care no matter how cowish they can be, they are payed to listen to the kids!
There is no way a teacher would give you back to your dad at lunchtime if they actually knew you were hit like this.

Manages to keep you "imprisoned" at lunch times, doesnt he have a job to maintain the "big house"
And how can he keep tabbs on all outside comunication?

If its that bad bunk off a lesson!
Run off to the cop shop. Child protection is now OTT so a genuine case will get you well safe and hidden, now with the baby P thing all child protection things are on overdrive!

I hope this is just an attention seeking stunt or something because it just seems to hopless to be real.

If it is real there is always a way out, It all depends on who wants what more.
Either for you to get out or for yout father to keep you living in hell.

[Rogue27]

Oh I have read a story about your case. The book is called a child named it. If you ever need to talk I am here and I have lots of good advice so please just pm me anytime.

[Jman35]

Just running away is not going to work trust me I've had similar problems. You need to get authorites involved, and plead for a court date or something, that way you can testify against him. Also, try getting to a hospital sometime. People who do that kinda shit, like forensics, can tell if your limbs have been broken.

Also, I'm sorry, FOR you. Your dad is a worthless bastard who needs some help or some prison time, maybe getting assraped by the giant in the showers would teach him a lesson.

[derkderpderp]

Gee thanks people.and erm dude,the teachers dont know he beats me,my father himself has maintained a good relationship with my school and its teachers for years.im considering running away and getting help.thanks guys.

[Rogue27]

Thank god. Definatly go to the hospital or a police station to get evidence so you can tesltify against him. I feel so bad bad for you. It hurts to know other children go through this. Good luck!

[Fade_away_jade]

Mmmkay....
I don't neccessarily condone violence but you need to figh back.
He IS going to kill you.
I have had it happen to a friend already.
You have to start thinking for your survival.
There are things worth living for.
It sure in the FUCK is NOT him.
He is a stupid worthless fuck and he is a coward.
He can beat you but don't let him break your spirit.
Laugh in his fucking face.
I don't condone violence, but what you need to do is grab the sharpest thing you can find and use it as the last possible resort.
Stab him if it comes down to it.
I hate more than anything saying that, but you need to start thinking for your survival.
When you stab him, run as far as possible.
Go to the next town. Go to that towns authorities.
Or tell your friends and rebel against this bullshit.
Attack him with what strengh you have.
Destroy him. Fight with heart.
Dont let him make you feel worthless. He is not worth dying over. :/
Say that you will cook for him and cook something that requires grease get it hot and then call him over and say ''Am I doing this right" and then throw the grease on him and slam him with the frying pan and run as far as possible. Steal someones bike. Do ANYTHING to get out of there.
Dont worry about the reprocussions.
Just please do what I am asking and please get out of there.
This is not right. :/

[Strength]

Yeah I've had a few moments when I thought my dad was going to kill me, even over something as simple as an arguement...guess the old fart can't handle being wrong about something.

[Rogue27]

Hurting your dad is the wrong advice. Only if your survival depends on it. Just use your brain not brawn because he can overpower you. Get away at night or sometime that his guard is down. If he knows you are trying to get away he will hurt you or mabey try to have the police out for you. Be smart and please be safe.

[derkderpderp]

Ow this sucks

[derkderpderp]

Thanks guys.il try what i can.but i am just scared.i have reason to be.but dudes il do what i can.thank you.oww this is going to be hard.oww i dont know what to do.its so damn complicated!argh!i doubt i can run away,something will make sure i dont,doubt and fear would set in.ow.i will try.ow i dont want to be violent,hes just going to get me back worse.ow.thanks guys.
=(

[Zazu]

Thanks guys.il try what i can.but i am just scared.i have reason to be.but dudes il do what i can.thank you.oww this is going to be hard.oww i dont know what to do.its so damn complicated!argh!i doubt i can run away,something will make sure i dont,doubt and fear would set in.ow.i will try.ow i dont want to be violent,hes just going to get me back worse.ow.thanks guys.
=(

I know it has been said, but you NEED to inform the police / local authorities. What he is doing to you is both legally and morally wrong.

It might seem hard to take action against him because you're afraid that he'll just get you back, and excuse the language, but don't let the bastard win. He's trying to belittle you, he's trying to make you feel threatened, don't let him.

If you ever feel threatened by him, or he has done something to you, don't ever hesitate to call 999 / tell someone else.

He shouldn't be doing this to you dude, I just hope you find a way that you can tell the police / someone else :hug3:

[derkderpderp]

Dude thanks.but seriously his whole be-little me thing has worked,im *poop* scared for my life,and i know the pain hes put me through before,i just don't want it to happen again.hes already got a taste for beating me regularly,so im just screwed and getting weaker by the day,but im too scared to do anything,the things i have tried backfired on me,namely retaliating physically when he beat me once,i hit him back,now he wedges my arms under the wardrobe so i cant get him back.ow.but thanks dude,i will see what i can do.ow
=(

[Beautiful Obsession]

u need to call the police! your dad cant do anythin from behind bars!

[alsoknownas]

Okay my last post was prahaps a tad insensitive and this post will unfortunatley make things sound worse for you and its not your fault.

I am a sailing instructor, in this case I can be a teacher.
If a child comes up to me and tells me they get abused out comes the paper work:mad:

I have to let that child go back with the abuser untill this is done with the authorities untill they build up a case and you get put on the child at risk register which obviously worked in the Baby P case....NOT:mad:

Unfortunatley you cant go, he abused me and expect a room in a childrens home and pop's behind bars, we got paper's to fill in and councelling to go through first which is sooo efective!:rolleyes:

I think the best way is Police and report assauld and GBH, at least then there is an arrest and an inquest or inspection takes place and they find this child abuse thing and then action is taken.

Just been reading my book on child protection and my job is to investigate IE send you back to see what happens and report it to the child protection team who will fill out the forms to have you protected but i'm meant to sit back untill I gather evidence!
System sucks:mad:

[derkderpderp]

Right.thanks dude.erm.its that laboursome?damn.thanks

[ErykaInspire.]

Although this story doesn't seem legit, i'm going to give you my advice.
You claim that your father is a school governor, part time invigilator, and works in a steel mill?
AND knows ALL of your teachers?

I'm sorry, but I highly doubt that.

If you ARE abused, in ANY way, call the cops. Sure, he'll notice it, but the cops will be there before he can do anything. Call them from a school phone and have them pick you up there, before school lets out. Explain that you're dads abusive and you're afraid that if you go home one more time he'll kill you.

You said you've gone through alot of hospital visits? Doctors keep basis of everything, so they'd be able to give their records to the police when authorized to do so.
Plus, the hospital would more likely get suspisious if there's been no major cause for these things. If they realize that you're dad keeps giving the excuses, they'll realize that HE'S the one doing it.

Call the cops. Tell a friend, have THEM call the cops, and tell a respectable teacher.
Also, go to the school nurse.


I'm also quite curious.. hasn't your mom noticed? She must've. Her son can't be getting broken bones without realizing that you're not REALLY going to the SM with your father.
And what does your dad do when he breaks a bone? DRIVE you to the ER? That's definitely something that would be a sight of interest for a doctor. If he said something happend at the SM, he would've called the Ambulence. Not driven you.


I'm sorry, but I really don't fully believe this story.. all of the information is to loosely intwined and not legit.

But again, I give you my advice.

[derkderpderp]

Firstly my mum is dead,along with my sister.its just me and my dad now.and i dont care if you dont believe me, i wasnt asking you to,but thank you for the advice anyway.

[ErykaInspire.]

Then who else lives with you?

[derkderpderp]

Its just me,my dad and a maid we employ.and no she wont help me,shes a twisted,bitter creature.

[ErykaInspire.]

Then why does your dad wait til you're home alone?

[derkderpderp]

What are u on about?home alone?thats only when the maid is out.and you know what?im not having this conversation.i dont think i should be ostracised for se eking help,and it probably doesnt make sense to you because youre not me,and youre not going through it.but thanks for the help before anyway.

[ErykaInspire.]

Fyi, i've been through ALOT of abuse.
Try 7 abusive relationships, attempted rape, raging alcoholic for a father, neglectful mother, 2years of chronic depression(cutting, burning, ODing, suicide attempts, anger problems),yeah so don't you dare tell me I don't know how you feel.
I'm just trying to get info to HELP you. and if you can't give info, that's gunna make people think you're lieing and just want attention.

I never said i don't BELIEVE it.. i said it doesn't seem LEGIT, but i'll help anyways.

[derkderpderp]

Alright dude,im sorry.but check this-im sorry you've been through all that,but have you been through exactly what ive been through?or should i say exactly what im going through?
Have you lost your mother AND your sister to a monster who is your dad?
I admit you have been through a hell of a lot,shitloads.and im sorry for that.
And im sorry for jumping to conclusions,when you said its not legit i assumed you thought i was lying.i am sorry.i really.and if you dont want to help me,then dont,you have enough going on.im sorry dude.i was just looking for help.im sorry.thanks for the help.

[ErykaInspire.]

Yeah, i've been through alot. But other peoples ADVICE.. can't help you. It can't help you unless you listen to it. If your dad killed your mom and sister, police should've known that. There'd be court-meets, funeral planning, background checks, ect.
I'm not just another person on the internet, I know what i'm talking about.
I've been through enough to know alot on alot of topics.
I already told you what to do, so do it. Don't just sit here on the computer and let it keep happening. Stop doing nothing. We can't help you unless you help yourself.

[Cloud]

erm question
why was there no investigation into your mother and sisters deaths? surely there would have been something to find the cause of death?????

[Beautiful Obsession]

i agre? x

[ErykaInspire.]

That's my point! Thank you for other people noticing that.

[derkderpderp]

There was an investigation into their deaths.they both died of heart attacks.separate times.he scared the hell outta both of them.and your right about acting on it,but dude,im trying.

[Mekipedia]

Hey dudes,erm i'm sort of stuck,my father beats me like crazy,he does it when either nobody is in the house or there is an empty room,and our house is huge so theres a lot of empty rooms,but he locks me in these rooms,and beats me!he's already broken my ribs,dislocated my left shoulder broken both arms a number of times, and he's bled me!damn it i'm weak,i'm stuck,i don't know what to do,because if i try getting away and telling someone again then the repercussions are going to be so much worse than my last beating.owww please someone help me!
:(

Pick up the phone.

9-11.

Your welcome.

[Death]

You can't let this one go. You need to get the fuck out your house or school! I know that there is someone you can talk to - likely those on childline. Make sure this violent bastard gets what's coming to him, for your sake. I am very sorry that this has happened to you. One thing though, surely other members of your family will be aware that something has happened?

[derkderpderp]

thanks dude, but there is no-one else in my family

its just me and him, and our maid-shes a bitch, she wont help me (tried it once, she told him and i got a beating)

but yeah, thanks
im going to try to get away after my exam tomorrow, because we have to leave by the back entrance of the school, so i can get away, hmm im going to do it

thanks guys

[Death]

Best of luck with that.

[sarabear]

well if you ever see/talk to your mom why dont you just ell her. and if not then call the social services. you HAVE to do something. if not you have a very high chance of being KILLED and at only 15. im verry sorry. your father is a DUMBASS


or you could tell one of your classmates,give them your adress and phone number,tell them when and where your dad picks you up and drops you off,then tell them to call the cops or something.

[Donkey]

Ow dude,thank you.but its as simple as this-he does not let me out of his sight,i cant call childline,he logs everything,so he will know.ow.thank you for your advice,but i just dont know what to do,it makes me want to just kill myself and end my pain permanently.ow.im 15 and my stupid father has done so much to me that im feeling suicidal.ow.

=(
Childline is free from most mobile providers, and doesn't show up on the phone bill so he won't know.

If someone is in danger, Childline are legally required to report it.

Mmmkay....
I don't neccessarily condone violence but you need to figh back.
He IS going to kill you.
I have had it happen to a friend already.
You have to start thinking for your survival.
There are things worth living for.
It sure in the FUCK is NOT him.
He is a stupid worthless fuck and he is a coward.
He can beat you but don't let him break your spirit.
Laugh in his fucking face.
I don't condone violence, but what you need to do is grab the sharpest thing you can find and use it as the last possible resort.
Stab him if it comes down to it.
I hate more than anything saying that, but you need to start thinking for your survival.
When you stab him, run as far as possible.
Go to the next town. Go to that towns authorities.
Or tell your friends and rebel against this bullshit.
Attack him with what strengh you have.
Destroy him. Fight with heart.
Dont let him make you feel worthless. He is not worth dying over. :/
Say that you will cook for him and cook something that requires grease get it hot and then call him over and say ''Am I doing this right" and then throw the grease on him and slam him with the frying pan and run as far as possible. Steal someones bike. Do ANYTHING to get out of there.
Dont worry about the reprocussions.
Just please do what I am asking and please get out of there.
This is not right. :/
What are you talking about? Violence won't help anything, and would just be stooping to his father's level. If he's doing this for nothing at the moment, and he laughs in his dads face the man will bloody kill him.

I want to know what's happened after this exam..

[MyNameIsJack]

telling someone at school, a very close friend.. u might have someone that u know and can help you, but u have to run away :S

[derkderpderp]

Thanks guys.but hey?erm sarabear?my mother is dead,so there is no way i can communicate with her material form.
But anyway guys!?good news,the best news i have ever,ever had!i got away after my exam!and now im living with the widow of my long dead brother(he died when i was about 5,from progressive multiple leukeoencaphalopathy)
But yeah,im living with her!and shes awesome!and pretty soon shes going to become my legal guardian after we take my ahem father to court!hes been convicted of child abuse and hes going to be put away for a long long time!yaaay!
Guys?i just want to say THANK YOU so very much for helping me!you have all helped,and now through your helpfulness i have achieved happiness!yesh!thank you guys!yeeeah!thank yooou!=]

[Antares]

I know that you are in hard place. Because if you bring other people it will make your relationship worse with him. However, you need to call the cops. There are regulations in place that would provide you security and stuff. But you need to call 911. Take pictures of your bruises and maybe record audio of him actually doing it. As soon as he is done or you have suffiencent evidence to get the cops involved, call them.
He has no right to put his hands on you to the point that you are seriously hurt.
You need to get him set straight and the law is going to be the only feasible way to do that.
So call 911, and good luck :)

[MyNameIsJack]

your welcome! :D

[Death]

Thanks guys.but hey?erm sarabear?my mother is dead,so there is no way i can communicate with her material form.
But anyway guys!?good news,the best news i have ever,ever had!i got away after my exam!and now im living with the widow of my long dead brother(he died when i was about 5,from progressive multiple leukeoencaphalopathy)
But yeah,im living with her!and shes awesome!and pretty soon shes going to become my legal guardian after we take my ahem father to court!hes been convicted of child abuse and hes going to be put away for a long long time!yaaay!
Guys?i just want to say THANK YOU so very much for helping me!you have all helped,and now through your helpfulness i have achieved happiness!yesh!thank you guys!yeeeah!thank yooou!=]

I am glad that what was for the best has been done, good for you!

I know that you are in hard place. Because if you bring other people it will make your relationship worse with him. However, you need to call the cops. There are regulations in place that would provide you security and stuff. But you need to call 911. Take pictures of your bruises and maybe record audio of him actually doing it. As soon as he is done or you have suffiencent evidence to get the cops involved, call them.
He has no right to put his hands on you to the point that you are seriously hurt.
You need to get him set straight and the law is going to be the only feasible way to do that.
So call 911, and good luck :)

He already said that the problem had been dealt with.

[derkderpderp]

Thank yoou!all you guys are awersome!you have helped me gain freedom,and ultimately happiness!yaaay!

[jetbluerocks]

Munkyduck, if he starts to hurt you again, PM me, im in the civil air patrol which is like military. I can get my squad on the case and we can stop him once and for all, please, its my job to help people....PLEASE PM ME IF HE HURTS YOU AGAIN! and if you dont believe me, go to www.gocivilairpatrol.com OK? AGAIN ITS MY JOB SO DONT FELL SCARED TO PM ME AND GET My SQUAD DOWN THERE!

[derkderpderp]

Lol!thank you so much but im sure hes sorted,im going to let him rot in prison.yay.

[Antares]

I am glad that what was for the best has been done, good for you!



He already said that the problem had been dealt with.

Yea, I neglected to read past the first page because I wanted to reply so bad :P


Glad everything is working out :D

[jetbluerocks]

ok your welcome =D

[derkderpderp]

Thank you!=]

[Lord C]

Edit: Never mind, didn't read that the problem was solved.

[Neverender]

well if you ever see/talk to your mom why dont you just tell her.

Shes Dead. Pay attention.

[YourFriend]

Get him arrested as soon as possible

[Schon]

dude, go to a freinds house, call the cops, this is child abuse.

[Kuervo]

ok look calm first. try asking ur dad y hes doing it. then try telling ur mom to see if she can do anything about it. if tht still doesnt work....tell the police tht ur dad beats u up like hell. he should be arrested for it. show the police the bruises ur dad makes u hope i helped

[pkid]

Either tell another adult that you know will help, or if you dont have any other choice, go to the authorities immeadiately!

[Viral Death]

I know he is your dad but you need to move in with your moms parents and tell them what is going on and have them call the police. If he wants to talk and askes questions just tell him you are not going to lie no more! I am sooooo sorry for what has happen with your family.

[derkderpderp]

errm? people? im really really greatful for your help! i really am, but the problem has already been solved, lol, because i had advice like the advice you are giving me

so thank you!!!!

munky

[gone]

alert the authorities about this, you should not have to put up with this people can help, hope every thing works out for you :)

[LiGHT]

This is so wrong. Run away to an aunts, uncles, friends, grandmas house. You don't deserve his punishments. Call or talk to anyone, tell your brothers and sisters.
GL! and Im sorry :(

[Viral Death]

Run away to an aunts, uncles, friends, grandmas house.

Sorry to tell you the bad truth running away is not the answer! You get in trouble and then sent back to your dad. Like everyone said have him in prison and then move with a friend or a family member.

Thanks,
Nice_Guy

[Myzarri]

If you really are being abused, you'll find a way to get out. There's almost always a way.

[Kale]

Hey dudes,erm i'm sort of stuck,my father beats me like crazy,he does it when either nobody is in the house or there is an empty room,and our house is huge so theres a lot of empty rooms,but he locks me in these rooms,and beats me!he's already broken my ribs,dislocated my left shoulder broken both arms a number of times, and he's bled me!damn it i'm weak,i'm stuck,i don't know what to do,because if i try getting away and telling someone again then the repercussions are going to be so much worse than my last beating.owww please someone help me!
:(

You've had broken ribs and the likes and nobody has noticed these things? Seriously? That sounds a bit far-fetched, but I'll humor you:

Best Advice: Tell a guidance counselor and get him in trouble with social services quietly. They are obligated by the government to protect you. You should be fine after that.

[Rolla7]

Look at page 3. It's already been fixed.

[derkderpderp]

Thank you Rolla7.
But yeah guys,thanks,but its been sorted

[BuryYourFlame]

OP has stated that it has been sorted, he can PM me if he wants this thred opened again. People, please read others posts before you post, to avoid cases like this, the OP has said many many times that the problem has been solved.

~Locking~