he still won't leave me alone( WHAT DO I DO ABOUT MICHAEL?)

[ackmedsgirl666]

i recently discovered that my ex may be following me
in the past there was a similar thread posted by seenbutnotheard about how my bf was involved in a gang and carries a gun(highly unlikely)
anyays he has started on me again by getting his(CREW) after me and i am really scared. i am afraid to go anywhere because everytime i turn around someone who knows him is following and/or watching me
he has been warned BY THE POLICE AND HIS LAWYERS to stay away from me but its no good. he is trying to get back together with me but i don;t want him back as i am currently in a safe happy relationship with a guy i knew. but the thing is that michael will not stop and its pissing me off. hes refusing to back off, he knows where i love and where i hang out. and worst of all hes got my bestfriends cellie number
im getting fed up..
i don;t want to get involved with the police again. what should i do and how should i resolve this?
comments or ideas are greatly appreciated

[Music Lover]

Is he aggressive, or desperate or what when he wants to get back with you.

Hve you tried telling it to his face, i think apart from telling the police, that's the only thing i can think of. Be sure not to do it alone, though. Just in case.

[TigerLily]

I know you said you didn't want to involve the police, however, if serious enough some sort of legal restraining order could be placed upon him meaning he'd be breaking the law by coming how ever many hundreds of metres near you, and if this is worrying you then maybe it is worth considering.
I can't think of anything else of the top of my head as an alternative.
All the best whatever you decide to do :)

[Truth]

I know you said you didn't want to involve the police, however, if serious enough some sort of legal restraining order could be placed upon him meaning he'd be breaking the law by coming how ever many hundreds of metres near you, and if this is worrying you then maybe it is worth considering.
I can't think of anything else of the top of my head as an alternative.
All the best whatever you decide to do :) He's having his friends follow her, remember?

And honestly, i think you should A) Move, B) Get the police involved, C) Find new places to hang out.

[TigerLily]

He's having his friends follow her, remember?

And honestly, i think you should A) Move, B) Get the police involved, C) Find new places to hang out.

Wow, soz, I guess this is what you get for 3 hrs sleep :/
In that case, I would get the police involved if I were you, but its up to you. Just stay safe, ok? :hug: