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Agent
May 30th, 2009, 05:49 PM
Clock is now 1:35 AM when I am writing this. My mom just came home from the bar(not drunk) and he immediately started shouting to my dad(dunno why, maybe because someone was a total jerk at the bar). My dad started shouting too and judging from the sound, started getting a little violent. He yelled at my mom and tried to make him leave our home(very rare for my dad to be angry), but failed.

My parents fight alot(usually just small fights, complaining etc. Not much physical violence). Fights have started getting more usual in about 2 years. My big brother is 22 years old and our parents were peaceful at the time he lived in home. It sucks that my big brother lived a happy younghood and I am living a bad one. But it is not his fault.

My dad got some brain disease about 2 years ago and he went to surgery that made him think slow, be slow etc.
My mom doesnīt want to live with him because of that and she is planning to move away from him with me(I know, she is a heartless bastard).

I have thought about telling the social workers, but I havenīt got enough bravery to do it. What happens if I tell them? Will I need to go to an orphan home? Or what?

Θάνατος
May 30th, 2009, 06:34 PM
Well is your dad just slow or is he not capable of taking care of you. I think you could stay with your dad if that is what you want to do.

Since your brother is 22 you might be able to go live with him too if he wants you too.

Hey if you need some one to talk to send me a PM and I will give you my msn, aim, yahoo or skype so we can talk more about this.

INFERNO
May 31st, 2009, 03:43 AM
You could live with your father providing he is deemed fit to take care of you and himself. Or, you could try to live with your brother. So, you have two possible choices at hand, and others such as aunt/uncle, grandparents, etc... . However, I doubt the social workers can stop your mother wanting to leave him, they could try though. If not, then they can work with you.

Θάνατος
May 31st, 2009, 04:39 AM
Hey let us know how this is going?

I hope it all works out for you and your dad.

Agent
May 31st, 2009, 10:30 AM
I still donīt have enough courage to tell the social workers. I dunno why.

Theyīve had mini fights today(my mother complaining). My mother always complains to my father, when he is thinking or doing something slowly. He forgets things alot so I think he canīt take care of me. He is also retired and I donīt think he even does have much money. Of course he getīs the money that retired people get, but still...

I donīt sometimes even remember the fights afterwards and I just think that everything is fine. Itīs like Iīm betraying myself.

Lights
May 31st, 2009, 10:31 AM
How do you know that your mum wasn't drunk when coming home from a bar that late? You can't really be too sure ;)

Agent
May 31st, 2009, 10:55 AM
Well, she went there pretty late. She didnīt sound like she was drunk, she does never drink herself drunk, she hates drunk people and she didnīt have hangover this morning.