i dont have a boyfriend):

[kt2369]

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[bri-]

dang, i really wish i could help you but i have the same problems with guys. i'm at a stage in my life right now where i just need someone to be there for me in a way no friend can.. if i get any good advice i'll be sure to share it with you.

[TigerLily]

All I can say, is just try and be confident in yourself.

Recognise all those things you like in yourself, and keep reminding yourself of those positive qualities. This should help improve your self-esteem and therefore your confidence (which could in turn help your chances of getting a bf, but thats not really the main issue here.)

I am sure you will find a boyfriend when you aren't looking for one quite as much, but in the meanwhile keep remembering how you really don't need a bf to get you through these problems you talk about (although I'm not denying they obviously can be very positive and supportive influences). You will be able to get through these using your own strength, and the support of those who love you... with or without a bf.

I'm sure that up to now you have just been unlucky in love, but that is sure to change eventually :)
In the meanwhile, try not to worry about it and just enjoy life and be happy! :) :)

(Wow, soz for rambling and most likely not-making-sense post, its 1am here and I'm sleepy :P)

[kt2369]

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[bri-]

it's not necessarily bad, maybe it was just meant to happen. *sigh* i'm not good with relationship advice. all i can say is everything happens for a reason.

[papercut_perfect]

I also suck at giving relationship advice . All I can say is relax. It's no big deal to not have a boyfriend. I didn't have one until I was 17.

[Music Lover]

It's ok not to have had a boy- or girlfriend, don't feel bad ok?

Even I haven't had one yet, so it is actually more common than people think.

[Aneklusmos]

About the guy you met in the hospital-it all depends on what kind of crazy. If he was a mass murderer, then i would say no. but if he was just going through some tough times than sure go for it. and the whole thing in general. just relax, be yourself. and if they're looking at you like they're going to puke that its obvious to me that its not going to work. Just go with the flow.

[Flutterfly]

It may seem like you need a bf, but when I had a bf it made it worse. I was always afraid he'd cheat on me orleave me (and he did) and then when I started trusting him he left me for my best friend!!! And he always threatened to leave me when/if I cut, and that was wwhen I needed him.

As for the guy you met in the hospital - you were there and you aren't some psycho, your friends are just being stereotypical
He could be really sweet and supportive. =]