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HelpMe222
May 30th, 2009, 10:03 AM
So, I'm straight, but I've recently been bi curious. and last night my friend who is bi stayed the night, and I gave him a hand job. And now, I'm feeling really guilty.

I don't believe in god, so thats not an issue. Neither of us are going to get in trouble, neither of us are going to tell, and our relationship as friends isn't going to end, because we are both really easy going people. I also am very pro gay and gay rights.

It's not going to happen again, because I'm not curious anymore. So why am I feeling so guilty? Is this normal? how can I let myself off the hook. (I normally wouldn't do something like this) :confused: Please help.

thanks

BeautifulSilence
May 30th, 2009, 01:58 PM
Moved to Sexuality.

Maybe you're feeling guilty because it's something you've never done before? You shouldn't feel guilty, because you've not done anything wrong. And if you can't find the reason for feeling like this, then you might as well let yourself off the hook anyway.

Zazu
May 30th, 2009, 04:49 PM
Sometimes when people experiment for the first time, and they feel unsure about it in the first place, afterwards they can feel guilty about what they've just done. It's perfectly normal to feel nervous after experimenting and to feel that what you did wasn't right; so don't worry! What happened, happened, and you wouldn't know where you stood sexually if you had not experimented, so don't feel bad about yourself for having done so.

punkjake
May 31st, 2009, 12:14 AM
well i beleve in God but im not one of those crazy nuns/preist who think gays are going to hell,thats just mean:mad:but i thik ur guilty becuz its something unusal for u if your str8 but dn't worry handjobs don't make u gay:P,PS God loves everyone even gays

nick
May 31st, 2009, 11:38 AM
There's nothing to feel guilty about. It was just an experiment, and its really common, so many guys do this, straight guys as much as bis and gays.

Oscarisme
June 1st, 2009, 12:08 AM
take my advice: ALMOST EVERY GUY HAS DONE IT!! DO NOT WORRY ABOUT IT!! even the most tough staright guys have lol trust me i would know lol