Bite my lip...

[Flutterfly]

Is it SI to bite my lip? They are chapped right now, it'd be easy to make them bleed... I want to feel it, but I really don't want to go back to SI, I can't loose my 5months to a bitten lip if it's SI... =[
I'm just overly stressed - Who really cares about me? About how I think or feel? I get treated so unfairly sometimes, but there is nothing I can do. I feel miserable. I just let everyone down all the time. This is all I can focus on, I want to be distracted from it all...

If biting my lip helps... is that okay? Or is it SI?

[Miss Punk]

I think that's SI, because you are deliberately hurting yourself. You've gone 5 months, that's amazing! Don't give in!

[Truth]

It's SI, just keep trying. Everyone you know loves you, you know? Even if they don't admit it, it would make them cry, if they lost you. Unless their messed up in the head, but then you shodnt care =P. Im sure your not a failure as you say.. cause if so, i must be a 'failure of epic proportions.'

[DecemberRain]

I think it would be si because you know your hurting yourself. Thats great that you havnt done si in 5 months! keep up the good work=)

[Flutterfly]

But it's not like I'm hurting myself that much if I do it...

I was in the car a lil' bit ago and I had my lip between my teeth - not biting - but I was wishing the car would jerk or hit a bump so I'd bite on accident... so it wouldn't be delibrate...

It's so hard,now that I have the idea to bite my lip... I really want to... I'm scared I won't make it through the night with out hurting myself...

[Project Delta]

to be honest leaving it there to 'accidentally' happen is still SI Because you are doing it with the intent to be hurt. Sorry for thhe ice water.
5 months is great though

[Flutterfly]

5months to a bloodied lip... I hate myself, I can't stop biting my lip...


I never make it past 5 months. ever.
I feel like a failure now more so...

[Oblivion]

It's not a big deal. It's not a huge problem.
The only thing was you knew it would hurt you, and still did it.


But one of the most important things about quitting something is to be forgiving.
If you mess up, pick yourself up and keep going. It's not the end of the world.
Try getting lip balm so your not tempted to bite it, or if you do then it doesn't bleed.

[Triceratops]

If you're purposely hurting yourself, then yes it is self harm.
It's not one of the most lethal forms of self harm, but try to get help before it develops into something more vicious.

Refrain from these thoughts of low self-worth. Forgive and forget, and remember someone will always love and care about you. If you give in, take a step back start over, it's not too late.