Attraction and sexuality

[themanwhoneverwould]

Does it nesiserally make a person Homosexual or bi sexual if they are attracted to the same genders appearance?

[Requin]

No. We are all humans aren't we? So we can tell who or what we find attractive or good looking. But it doesn't mean we're gay or bi.

I know that Johnny Depp is a very good looking man, but it doesn't mean I'm gay does it? It just means I have a sense of attraction and appeal.

Being homosexual is much more than just attracted to appearences.

Also, this is more sexuality, so moving to Teen Sexuality. :)

[themanwhoneverwould]

but from what Requin just said, does it then mean that not finding women attractive does not make you gay or bi?

[Requin]

Ah, that's a bit different. But not competely. I at the moment do not find women attractive, but feelings (or lack of) like this can just be a stage.

If you don't find women attractive, and find men attractive, AND you have emotional feelings towards men then I would say that yes you could be a homosexual.
But of course, with puberty, things change, so I wouldn't encourage people to decide so young. :)
Does that make sense?

[themanwhoneverwould]

Well i have had girl friends, at primary, so nothing serious, the kind of thing where you think you agree being outrageous just by hugging each other.

When i joined secondary, and hit puberty, there were girls i liked a lot. I asked them out when i was sure i was ready, but got turned down again and again and again and have never been in a serious relationship with a girl.

I mean, i didn't find girls attractive back when i joined secondary, and yet i still like liked them, emotionally, and not physically. But since i always got turned down so many times, i haven't really even tried meeting a girl.

SO baicially....
i do find some men attractive, Physically but not emotionally
but ....
I also i don't not find women attractive physically but emotionally i do.

[Requin]

Maybe your feeling that way because you've been turned down so many times and you feel like you shouldn't bother or something?
I don't know but i wouldn't panic about it too much dude. Give it time and puberty will be over and you'll have a clear head to sort out all of your feelings and thoughts. :)

[themanwhoneverwould]

Ok, thank you Requin

this has helped. And i do think it has got a lot to do with being rejected so many times

[ThUnDeR]

noo
cause i can garentee every guy thinks a guy is hot but they just deny it but girls go around and say other girls are pretty but they aint bi or gay soo no it doesnt mean you are gay or bi