My girlfriends.....girlfriend?

[nick08]

well i've got a little situation., me and my girlfriend have been going out for going on 10 months now. we both love eachother more than anything, and often talk about maintaining a long term relationship, im planning on marrying her after i get out of the marine corp. We both are the only people that either of us has "done anything" with, that is she's the only girl i've every been with and im the only guy she's ever been with. However, she has recently told me that she has done some stuff with her best friend (who is a girl) for some time now, basically ever since they were little they have always "experimented". She has admitted to me that they have had sex, however she swears to me that she isn't bi sexual, she says they only have done it as like an experimental, comforting, sper of the moment thing. The part that makes me wonder, is she has done it with her while she has been with me too. im not sure if i should be concerned, i mean i think it is kind of hot, but the last time i posted a question about this, i recieved responses telling me to ask for a threesome. Thats a great idea, but there is no chance that will ever happen, i know my girlfriend would be crushed if i ever even mentioned the idea. im just wondering if i should just let it slide or say no more.

thanks

[pcd31]

I'd be a little concerned, it's kind of like cheating, but not really because it's just a little thing that they do. I'd let it slide just this once. Sounds like you're not satisfying her enough to keep her down lol.

[nick08]

well its not that, they just like doing it, they always have even before i came into the picture.

[pcd31]

I'd still let it slide because I don't think it's really a big deal. Try getting her back by finding yourself your own guy lol (just kidding).

[nick08]

ya thats what im probably just gonna do (let it slide, lol not get another dude f$*K that) i was just wondering if i should consider it cheating.

[Truth]

I myself would say fudge it and dump her (If they did it while she was dating me), since i consider it cheating whether it's with a girl or a guy.

[mr.sexy_bomb]

yeah i think cheating can be done witha girl or a guy and um i dont know if she says its an experiment how come she keeps on doing it, i mean she started along time ago, i think she likes it or you dont satisfice her enough.