Sex.

[Sianniy]

Me and my boyfriend want to have sex, hes older than me but we both love each other alot. we love seeing each other and enjoy each others company. but my mum thinks he will rape me, and his mum thinks il accuse him of rape when he hasnt, we dont know what to do... should we carry on and make a go of our relationship or move on? im really confussed... :wub:

[NeverTooLate]

well this is kind of common a lot of girls do say the bfs rape them after they break up if i where you and him just hold it off

[Gumleaf]

i don't hink you sound like you are ready for sex. talking about rap isn't something that goes together with 2 people having sex because they love eachother. sex is a huge step in a relationship and its something that needs to be thought out and considered carefully before doing it. at this time i don't think you guys fully have, and until you do i don't think you should be having sex.

[Rogue27]

You should probably hold off on the sex idea untill you know it is right. Don't let hormones and emotions get in the way of good decision making. Communicate with you're bf and talk about the positives and negatives to this new step in your relationship.

[Aneklusmos]

Sex is a BIG thing in a relationship. Your 15. wait a little. If you truly love each other than you can wait. I know it sounds harsh but I've heard bad things about sex at too young an age.

[miusha]

I can't say No don't do it, but then i'd be lying.
Just make sure that u wont regret anything.
That he's the one you've been waiting for in ur life.
The 1st person for me was a big mistake.
I didnt even want it!
I can see why ur parents would be worried.
Just relax if it happens remember you have a choice!

[Lights]

You're at an ilegal age of having sex so I'd strongly advise against it.
I'm not sure what else to say really =S

[Strength]

Me and my boyfriend want to have sex, hes older than me but we both love each other alot. we love seeing each other and enjoy each others company. but my mum thinks he will rape me, and his mum thinks il accuse him of rape when he hasnt, we dont know what to do... should we carry on and make a go of our relationship or move on? im really confussed... :wub:

Ignore your mother. Shes being irrational.

[nick]

If he's over 16 there would be risk of him being prosecuted for under-age sex if a complaint was made. Your mother could make that complaint to the police if she knew you'd had sex. So in your particular case it might be best to wait until your both 16.

If you're both under 16 the police wouldnt take any action even though its technically illegal. Although if anyone did claim it was rape that would be a different matter.