My frist cum HELP!

[xbox360guy]

I decided finally to masturbate and I did and it didn't have a feeling sperm just came out. WTF? Please help I feel sooo ashamed and have a mess now....

EDIT after cleaning up here is my old post...

http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=27960

Also all I felt was sperm coming out then after I washed my hands when I was breathing my voice was vibrating. I didn't feel anything my penis didn't pulsate.

Also this was by accident, I didn't mean to masturbate I'm still not going too. I was just stroking my penis and I made a promise to stop and pulsating and my penis emitted sperm and no good feeling. I did feel VERY relaxed and I vibrated that's it... So to sum it up I still have my fear 0_o

[QuickQuart]

okay well first of all, i dont think there's anything you really need help with. every guy tries masturbating, and 99% of those guys continue to do it. so i can almost promise you you'll do it again (and again and again and again). second of all, what you may have experienced is pre-cum. its the same stuff that comes out of your penis when you ejaculate, only it's in smaller quantities and its meant to lubricate the penis. how much of this cum did you get?

[xbox360guy]

okay well first of all, i dont think there's anything you really need help with. every guy tries masturbating, and 99% of those guys continue to do it. so i can almost promise you you'll do it again (and again and again and again). second of all, what you may have experienced is pre-cum. its the same stuff that comes out of your penis when you ejaculate, only it's in smaller quantities and its meant to lubricate the penis. how much of this cum did you get?

A huge amount, it was in my whole hand and was dripping down... If that was meant to lubricate the penis there must be a problem...

[HelloWorld123456]

i think u have a climax but you skipped the orgasm ... happens sometimes ... i have a few friends that say that it happens to them ... never happened to me though

[xbox360guy]

i think u have a climax but you skipped the orgasm ... happens sometimes ... i have a few friends that say that it happens to them ... never happened to me though


THANK GOD!

Now I can live knowing I've still never had an orgasm!


NEVER AGAIN!

[xbox360guy]

No help??

[karatetigger2]

there isnt anything wrong with you masturbating, like QuickQuart said, every guy and girl masturbate over and over. if you enjoyed it you will most likely do it again.

[Oblivion]

There's nothing to be ashamed of. Most people do it. Including your parents (probably) at some point.

[timster]

Including your parents (probably) at some point.


That gave me disturbing images

[pontiacdriver]

I decided finally to masturbate and I did and it didn't have a feeling sperm just came out. WTF? Please help I feel sooo ashamed and have a mess now....

EDIT after cleaning up here is my old post...

http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=27960

Also all I felt was sperm coming out then after I washed my hands when I was breathing my voice was vibrating. I didn't feel anything my penis didn't pulsate.

Also this was by accident, I didn't mean to masturbate I'm still not going too. I was just stroking my penis and I made a promise to stop and pulsating and my penis emitted sperm and no good feeling. I did feel VERY relaxed and I vibrated that's it... So to sum it up I still have my fear 0_o

My first ejacuclation was pretty much like yours, and it was not fun at all. You are totally normal, and for a lot of guys their first ejaculation is not some great event as it can suck especially if one is not ready for it. It took me a while to accept my new ability as it happened by accident like you.

As for masturbating in general, there is nothing wrong with it as long as you are not doing it all the time. The fact remains that masturbation is a fact of life for nearly all teen guys out there, and unless you are one of those Tibetan monks who can seperate their mind from their body physical urges are going to be something that will be a part of you. You can control those urges while still having pleasure. Basically, develop positive sexuality by appreciating your body as well other others while not letting sexualilty control you. Masturbating can be a beautiful thing if done correctly.

[MARiFOX]

yea,my first ejeculation wasn't great either...

AND masturbaiting is healthy to the prostate, so masturbaiting is not wrong at all...unless you find taking vitamins wrong

[rivermaya]

was it clear or whitish? maybe it could just be pre-cum.

[nick]

OK, well several points.

First off, dont feel ashamed for ejaculating, once your balls start producing cum its going to happen one way or another, either through masturbation or through wet dreams and either way there's going to be a mess.

This is perfectly natural and completely unavoidable, you cant choose never to cum, thats just impossible. At least with masturbation you're in control, which means there should be less mess, once you know its going to happen, and its easier to clean up.

Next time keep some tissues handy and just try to cum onto the tissue, then it can just be screwed up and trashed or flushed down the toilet.

It sounds like you had a proper ejaculation to me. I think your body was just too ready to cum and so it happened very quickly. If you read some of the threads about guys being able to come twice in one session you'll see that lots of guys sometimes cum too soon without reaching a proper orgasm, and that they can usually then just keep going until they cum again. That happens to me sometimes.

Try and stay relaxed about this. Don't do anything you don't want to of course, but over the next few years there's going to be a lot of cum, so just think which is the best way to deal with it.

[xbox360guy]

OK, well several points.

First off, dont feel ashamed for ejaculating, once your balls start producing cum its going to happen one way or another, either through masturbation or through wet dreams and either way there's going to be a mess.

This is perfectly natural and completely unavoidable, you cant choose never to cum, thats just impossible. At least with masturbation you're in control, which means there should be less mess, once you know its going to happen, and its easier to clean up.

Next time keep some tissues handy and just try to cum onto the tissue, then it can just be screwed up and trashed or flushed down the toilet.

It sounds like you had a proper ejaculation to me. I think your body was just too ready to cum and so it happened very quickly. If you read some of the threads about guys being able to come twice in one session you'll see that lots of guys sometimes cum too soon without reaching a proper orgasm, and that they can usually then just keep going until they cum again. That happens to me sometimes.

Try and stay relaxed about this. Don't do anything you don't want to of course, but over the next few years there's going to be a lot of cum, so just think which is the best way to deal with it.


Honestly, I wouldn't mind doing this again, if there was a way to ALWAYS cum too soon. Honestly, I'm more afraid of the orgasm then anything. I want to get rid of the cum but I don't want the orgasm...

The thing that spooked me is that I didn't experience an orgasm, it felt somewhat good, but not nearly as I was expecting. That was the main reason for this thread. If all times I masturbated that happened I would. Sadly, this is not the case so I'll just save it for wet dreams.

[nick]

Honestly, I wouldn't mind doing this again, if there was a way to ALWAYS cum too soon. Honestly, I'm more afraid of the orgasm then anything. I want to get rid of the cum but I don't want the orgasm...

The thing that spooked me is that I didn't experience an orgasm, it felt somewhat good, but not nearly as I was expecting. That was the main reason for this thread. If all times I masturbated that happened I would. Sadly, this is not the case so I'll just save it for wet dreams.
Have you experienced a wet dream yet? When I have them I always wake up just before cumming and so experience the orgasm anyway, this is the same for quite a lot of guys that get wet dreams at all, though some others just wake up and find the evidence in the morning.

There's really nothing to be frightened of in an orgasm, and again unless you're planning never to have sex when you get older you need to try to get over your fear. It would be better to have sorted that out before you get to the point of meeting someone and wanting to have sex otherwise you'll get very worried and mixed up when that happens.

Good luck anyway, whatever you decide.

[xbox360guy]

Have you experienced a wet dream yet? When I have them I always wake up just before cumming and so experience the orgasm anyway, this is the same for quite a lot of guys that get wet dreams at all, though some others just wake up and find the evidence in the morning.

There's really nothing to be frightened of in an orgasm, and again unless you're planning never to have sex when you get older you need to try to get over your fear. It would be better to have sorted that out before you get to the point of meeting someone and wanting to have sex otherwise you'll get very worried and mixed up when that happens.

Good luck anyway, whatever you decide.


Thanks for your support. Although I already made my decision not to have an orgasm. Fears are irrational, and I just can't overcome this.

I think it is time to let this thread die. I already figured out that I didn't experience an orgasm, and I made it a point not to have one (at least until sex...)

At this point this thread will just turn into you guys trying to convince me, "it's normal" or, "Everyone does it".'

Thanks for your help though, at least now I know why I didn't experience an orgasm.

As for your waking up during wet dreams. All I can say on that is I sure hope I do. Maybe if I do I will stop being so damn afraid because I already experienced one.