What should I do????

[CestDan]

I don't know what is happening to me (I'm 16). I've always thought that I was a normal person talking about sexuality. The problem here is that I like girls but recently I have noticed that I like seeing some guys, I just cannot resist, when I'm somewhere and I see some cute guy I like, I start staring him. Perhaps I'm bi, and sometimes I would like to shout it but I haven't because I'm not really sure.

What can I do?? Is it normal??? Have you ever had this situation??? Are you gay or bi????

Any posts will be appreciated.

Thank you.

[nick]

I'm like that all the time so its certainly normal for me. I believe I'm bi.

[ThUnDeR]

i have jus recently started thinking of guys like that and i hope im not bi but i might be =[
i cant tell if u bi only u can but i guess it is pretty normal for us teens

[Konnor]

Same. ( I'm Bi) I love to look at a cute guy lol

[Zazu]

I don't know what is happening to me (I'm 16). I've always thought that I was a normal person talking about sexuality. The problem here is that I like girls but recently I have noticed that I like seeing some guys, I just cannot resist, when I'm somewhere and I see some cute guy I like, I start staring him. Perhaps I'm bi, and sometimes I would like to shout it but I haven't because I'm not really sure.

What can I do?? Is it normal??? Have you ever had this situation??? Are you gay or bi????

Any posts will be appreciated.

Thank you.

What should you do? Well, don't worry about it and remember that it's perfectly normal to have these sorts of feelings.

[The Joker]

Well, your hormones are messing with your brain, you may feel attracted to them at the moment, but that may change.

[QuickQuart]

Well it's probably just curiosity. Many to most to all guys (that includes me) have similar feelings toward other guys.
Even if you don't turn out gay or bi (which you probably won't, according to simple statistics), I dontsee what the big deal is. It's not bad to be gay/bi!!!

[pontiacdriver]

I don't know what is happening to me (I'm 16). I've always thought that I was a normal person talking about sexuality. The problem here is that I like girls but recently I have noticed that I like seeing some guys, I just cannot resist, when I'm somewhere and I see some cute guy I like, I start staring him. Perhaps I'm bi, and sometimes I would like to shout it but I haven't because I'm not really sure.

What can I do?? Is it normal??? Have you ever had this situation??? Are you gay or bi????

Any posts will be appreciated.

Thank you.

It is hard to say with certainty on your case, but my guess is that you are developing and are seeing attributes on other guys that you find very attractive. There is a chance you just may want to look like those guys as opposed to actually wanting to have sexual relations and an emotional bond with them. Staring at some guys with features that you like is totally different than actually wanting to have sex with them or wanting to have a relationship with them.

If you turn out to be bi-sexual, then there is nothing wrong with you. Sexuality is inate, and we do not choose our orientation.

As for your immediate feelings, I suppose it is all right to look at those fellows you like, but if you are in a place where same sex relationships are frowned upon, then just be careful and discrete.