How do u know...?

[sam i am]

How do u know ur bi or gay...and what age did u accept ur self??

[NeverTooLate]

u kno ur bi if u like both boys and girls and ppl accept it at different ages

[ThUnDeR]

it jus depends on what you think if you really think you are gay or bi and you no it then you are gay or bi and it doesnt really matter wha age it can be a widee range of ages

[rainebg]

This requires a lot of soul searching (i know, I'm going through it) but what you want to ask yourself is what genders are you sexually attracted to and what genders you would like to date and eventually marry. If you have a sexual attraction to both but only love one gender than your orientation matches what gender you love. It's easy to know who you are sexually attracted to but love and romance...that takes a lot of thinking. For some it even requires dating both genders. If you do date explain you are unsure to avoid any unjustly broken hearts. I cant stress this enough. Be upfront!

I accepted myself at about twelve when i realized I could be gay, bi, or straight.

Also, don't stress over this too much and don't be biased. Don't convince yourself your straight because thats what you want you must be open to anything otherwise you won't get a good answer and you'd be cheating yourself and living a lie. No one wants that.

I hope all goes well!

[MisterMonster]

If your gay or bi then you'll look at a guy and say he's hot AND go through the same motions a straight couple go through. All the I love you's and such. You hav =e to have an emotional bond aswell

as for accepting myself as gay, i havn't even done it yet. I'm still questioning, one day i'm gay, the next i'm bi, then ii'm asexual. It's tough, man. Be brave, dude.

[Jalin]

Well.. I knew I was bi since the sixth grade.
I kinda had a crush on this guy, and well.. stuff happened.

You just decide how you are going to accept yourself.
You know if you're bi/gay on what gender you are sexually attracted to.

Just ask yourself this:
"Could I see me with this gender? Could I get married to someone that is the same/opposite sex as me?"

Answer that, and you can easily find out.

[confusedboy]

It hits you randomly. I noticed that I've always had my eyes on boys but didn't think nothing of it intill this past Jan. That's when I accepted the fact that I'm gay.

[Hyper]

You think your gay or bi when you feel attraction for the same sex or both the same and opposite sex

You know your ''gay'' or ''bi'' when your emotionally & physically mature and you know from experience that one or the other (sex) doesn't work for you or that both do in a physical & emotional level.

[Sceneboy612]

well you pretty much , you start to get an attraction to guys, while slowly losing it towards girls, and then you start to think about seeing yourself with people... and such like that... but i just acceped myself last month and i have had nothing against myself since

[Zazu]

I had feelings that I was bi ever since I became both emotionally and physically attracted to someone I knew. Went through quite a few experiences with them which made me think even more that I was bi.

I only really accepted myself just before xmas. Still not really come out to anyone though.

[mr.sexy_bomb]

well i knew i was bi in 6th grade but i accepted myself in the 8th grade and now i am a sophomore(10th)

[punkjake]

you'll know in the heart i think orientation should be determined with love:wub: lol Im curious/bi-curious but i feel like im going to end str8 and mayb just mayb bi but im sure what I am i will marry a girl even if i am Bi :yes:

[Maxeditout]

I have known that I've been gay since about 5th grade. I did not accept it and didn't want to believe it because of how society is. Also my family did not accept it one bit and still does not. I am now 17 and most of my friends know and my family all knows. Friends are very accepting of it but i also don't act like a girl like most gay guys which is one of the reasons why they are fine with it. Anyways i didnt accept it till just last year and had a very hard time with it from 5-9th grade but am much better now :)

[Ardiys]

It's just a feeling you have.
I've known I wasn't straight since at least 4th grade, but I didn't accept it. I tried dating girls in grades 8-9, didn't like it much. Accepted the fact that I was gay and I couldn't do anything about it in grade 9. :D

[TaBear.]

I'm attracted to girls and boys very much. I was actually attracted to girls before I developed an attraction for guys. I was about 13. [: