Can someone help me?

[Schon]

so i have this freind that has spent the night for like the last 2 nights. and i really want to... ya know with him. but he dosent even know im bi, and for all i know he is straight. and i havent come out to him due to fear of loosing our friendship. i dont know if comming out will help my chances anyway. any suggestions?

[nick]

pm me

[byee]

If he's slept over for two nights and he hasn't said or done anything that's even remotely sexual, then you can assume he's not interested. Guys usually don't have much difficulty letting on that they're sexually interested (regardless of their sexuality), so it might be wisest to say or do nothing.

[Oblivion]

pm me

Please don't post just to say "PM me"
You can just as easily PM him first. Posting it is only spam.
Thanks.


I agree with Sam. If you've been friends for a while and hes slept over a few times, I doubt he's interested sexually unless he's already hinted.

[Schon]

I agree with Sam. If you've been friends for a while and hes slept over a few times, I doubt he's interested sexually unless he's already hinted.

well he like rubs me and puts his hands on me all the time, and when i look at him he takes his hands a way and just smiles.

[Oblivion]

I'd say that's a hint.
If you can trust him, go for it. If he's a nice guy he will be OK with it either way.

[Schon]

well like i said, im pretty sure hes straight, and... idk how do you tell if someones not straight or even just curious, or can you tell if someone is curious?

[byee]

well he like rubs me and puts his hands on me all the time, and when i look at him he takes his hands a way and just smiles.

Well, it's hard to interpret the intentions of others, esp. when you want to see it a certain way. Touching you doesn't necessarily mean what you want it to, it could be an innocent, non sexual gesture, or it could be a hint. The only way to find out is to ask him why he did *that* when he does, just be careful not to make it sound like an accusation.

[Schon]

. The only way to find out is to ask him why he did *that* when he does, just be careful not to make it sound like an accusation.

i have, he just looks at me an shrugs

[tomm]

Why don't yah try saying him you're bi? If he's open minded but not interested, he'll be OK with it... If he's bi/gay, he'll let you know as soon as he thinks he can trust yah, and then, it's up to yah twoo... xDD
But be warned, yah only can open it to him, if you're sure he's open minded and will be OK with that! (:

[miusha]

Sweety im sorry to say this but if theres no signs of him being gay then hes not so keep ur friendship going with saying ur into him
sorry if i hurt your feelings
forgive me

[ThUnDeR]

yeaa if we was slightly interested into that we would of said someting about sex or msaterbating or somthing like that sorry bud =[