Things you hate in you´r parents

[Agent]

Tell the things you hate in your parents.

Right now my mom is angry and yelling with full volume, because one taxi driver he barely even knows is an alcoholic. He´s yelling at me and my dad because of that. So, I hate that she tends to yell us if someone he barely even knows is an alcoholic, crazy etc.
This happens very often. Now he is shouting at the livingroom like "Goddamn fuckin drunk shit!"

I really don´t understand her at all. Why yell at us if someone she barely even knows is an alcoholic?

[TigerLily]

Ah, don't get me started.
My mother is abusive, vindictive, manipulative, insulting, neglectful, aggressive etc (the list goes on) with a special preference for making my life a living hell in all the wonderful ways she does.
That might come off as typical teenage-drama-queen, but really its not. I have been abused by her my entire life.
Wow, sorry for such a depressing post, I just had to get that off my chest. Soz.

[Skeln]

Well, I hate the fact that they never truely understand who I am and what I want. My mom harasses me all the time trying to stay on top of me and my homework, when she knows that that's my grandfathers job, and he does it alot better. My dad, well he lives 4.5 hour drive away now, so nothing I can say about him anymore.

[Agent]

Ah, don't get me started.
My mother is abusive, vindictive, manipulative, insulting, neglectful, aggressive etc (the list goes on) with a special preference for making my life a living hell in all the wonderful ways she does.
That might come off as typical teenage-drama-queen, but really its not. I have been abused by her my entire life.
Wow, sorry for such a depressing post, I just had to get that off my chest. Soz.
You should tell the police.

[TigerLily]

You should tell the police.

No need, really
I don't have to see her as much anymore, so its ok.

[BuryYourFlame]

My dad...hmmmm...two main things...he just cant seem to display any emotion...and that...yeh...sometimes gets on my nerves...he could also be a little less restricting...i acknowledge that there are people with far worse parents than mine though...it would just be cool...

my mum...is dead...not much to write about her...

sara...although i dont/never will see her as a parent figure...she is bitchy and up herself.

[Patchy]

My mum can be bitchy towards me and makes it look like she is basically unintentionally doing it. She also stirs arguments up, like if me and her argue then she'll tell my sister and make it sound worse.

My Dad doesn't live at home so I don't see him much however he seems alright most of the time apart from him getting in moods quickly.

[AutumnDae]

I don't 'hate' anything in them, but little things DO annoy me.

Mom: If I'm explaining something to her, she has to have me say it a million times, even something simple. If I help my brother with math homework, she does it too, writing everything down. She always thinks something is wrong if I'm just in a quiet mood. If one thing goes wrong, suddenly the whole day is shot. Makes me be way more careful than I really need to be. I may have a blood disorder Mom, but I'm not made of glass.

Dad: Gets angry too quickly. Has no concept of time. ("Dad, will you be back in 20 minutes? I am leaving then and I need a ride." "Sure, no problem." *3 HOURS later he gets home.*) Everything is some else's fault. Likes to pick fights. Wants something done as soon as he asked.

[peaceloverugby]

My dad...hmmmm...two main things...he just cant seem to display any emotion...and that...yeh...sometimes gets on my nerves...he could also be a little less restricting...i acknowledge that there are people with far worse parents than mine though...it would just be cool...

my mum...is dead...not much to write about her...

sara...although i dont/never will see her as a parent figure...she is bitchy and up herself.

Wow our dads could be the same person: at his own fathers funeral, he was the only person who didn't cry. The only emotion he shows is drunk (although like I said early, he is getting help)

And I didn't know ur mum died *hug* I have no idea what it must be like.

My mom pretty much just cares about my grades. Doesn't even care how I get them, as long as they're good. It's like I'm a trophy or something

[Ella]

My dad is hardly ever her and whn he is he goes and hide with his computer.. i never see him.. i dont want to really.

My mum and me have a strained relationship , she blames me for my sisters depression and suicide attempts, she always thinks shes right and has no idea how hurtful she can be, i really hate her.

What i hate most is that my parents hate each other. Becuase there is no love and they are as good as seperated.. just with arguments. they dont talk, they yell. They sleep in seperate rooms. Eurgh I hate them.

Rant over :D
x

[Wonder.]

Both of my parents are VERY overprotective. I'm aloud to go around the block by myself. Not any farther. And my dad thinks I have a brain problem in the morning (no offence). My dad constantly yells at me when I don't do something. My sister is just plain annoying. I'd love to live somewhere else but after a while I know I'd miss my insane family. They really are insane. Expecially my grandma. I don't know how my mom grew up with my crazy grandma.

[Sage]

My parents grew up in a really racist generation. I'll leave it at that.

[Zero Beat]

My mum is cool :)

its my step dad i hate soooo much! just about eveything i hate about him

[Aneklusmos]

Ugh. Parents. Umm lets see. My dad can never seem to let go for more that like two minutes and have fun. Like we'll be jokin around and stuff, pushing and shoving each other and I'll be happy cause im having fun with him, then he'll stop, likes hes afraid someone will see him. Hes always trying to instill life lessons in me, but hes taught me almost nothing practical. Ive learned everything practical I know from my teachers at school. My mom is overprotective and hard of hearing so you have to yell everything at her. And to boot, shes gluten sensitive, which even if it isnt her fault, still ticks me off. And both of them see the need to lecture me all the time.

[justanotherguy93]

when i get an attitude my mom makes me run, or chop wood. and shed rather have me skip a class and get a detention then not hand in a homework assignment.

[NightFighter]

My mum always wants me to convide in her but when i do she gets all angry and stressed, then she blames me. Also, i always see her glaring at me, like really obviously glaring!....
My dad died when i was four. I cant hate him.

[nachtspiegel]

My dad is an alcoholic. He used to be on speed and crystal meth. When he is sober (which is rare,) he is somewhat agreeable. When he isn't, all hell breaks loose at the drop of a pin.
My mom was an enabler to all of the abuse in the family and she now denies any of it. Sometimes, she's easy to get along with, but she wears too faces and it's hard to deal with the constant mood swings.

[adesiree]

my mom is over protective and always seem to blame things on me and my father will some how put me in a situation that I had nothing to do with it in the first place

[Rutherford The Brave]

The fact that my dad still thinks that I was the cause of my mother's death and sticking a gun to my head when I was a little kid was alright.

[dstnyisurs]

My dad always has to be right. He feels as if his word is law, yet he always tells me how if I have an issue with what he's doing I should tell him. He has silly rules, and he blames me for everything. It's always my fault. I feel like I have to be perfect around him. He gets angry really fast. He won't hesitate to slap me across the face, or get right up to me and be threatening to the point where I fear for my safety.Im never good enough for him, and he won't listen to my opinion at all. When he gets mad, even if it isn't at me it gets directed at me.
God, he's a bastard.

[ErykaInspire.]

My mom always wants me to talk to her about what's going on but once I start to say something, she interupts me and immediantly starts to yell at me about what she thinks i'm about to say... now she's mad because I don't like to talk to her about anything.
My mom doesn't let me go to friends houses EVER.. and if I do, she calls me every 30-40minutes.
My dad used to be like my best friend... for example, we used to go fishing all of the time.. now I'm like "Dad, wanna go fishing?" Dad:"not right now"
5 minutes later he leaves the house, fishing pole in hand, with his friends...

my parents make me feel like I don't belong here):

My mom has told me that she hates me and wants me dead, then threatened to divorce my dad to get me out of her life..

bleh, idk.

[Brilliance]

Well my dad drinks too much and doesn't show emotion

Mum pretends she doesn't know what to do and she doesn't really show love towards her children.

[peaceloverugby]

I've got to update this:

What I hate about my parents? I fucking hate that my mom filed for divorce on Monday, and no one fucking told me until late Tuesday night. I hate how they're so fake with everyone, how they think no one can tell that my dads an alcoholic and my mom is a psycho bitch when she's home. I hate how my mom couldn't care less how my day was, or how my life is, but god dammit that math grade better come up! Or you're gonna lose your scholarship! FUCK THE SCHOLARSHIP! It's not like we can't afford an extra $1,000, we just won't be able to eat out as often. Or better yet, send me to a public school where they accept gays and bis. Oh wait, you don't know I'm bi b/c you don't give a flying fuck about my life.

Oh yeah, my dad? He drinks too much, that's all I can complain about

[Donkey]

My dad is genuine. Sometimes I get annoyed, but I know I'll understand later.

[HelloWorld123456]

I dont really can figure out what I hate about them because they are Perfect but sometimes they have like a mood to attack me ... Then after a few seconds they say sorry ?? ... Huh ? And everything goes smooth as it was going



buh ... Parents are even an Impossible mission to understand ... harder than understanding Girls

[JackOfClubs]

My Mom is overprotective, and she never stops yelling at me to do stuff. Even if she is standing right there next to it and it would be easy for her to do it, I still have to do it. And no matter what I say, I always have to do what she says. I can never do my idea even if it is better just because "she is the parent and she says goes." I don't have a choice in anything.
My Dad is fine though. If I ask him to help me with something he'll help and explain it in a way I'll understand, unlike my Mom. He is constantly out of town though, so i hardly ever see him. I still don't get the whole business trip to Las Vegas and Australia thing though haha. :P

EDIT- I wrote this when I was angry, my Mom is fine, she is just very strict when it comes to school.

[bagel]

Believe it or not I actually love my parents. Yes, they have flaws and quirks about them that are annoying, but so does everyone. Complaining about it just makes it seem even worse.

[pkid]

This might not be as bad as some people... but my dad just cant stop making really stupid jokes, its really really anoying..and i cant really tell him this because idk wat would happen..oh and my mom just bosses my dad around..but my dad doesnt even really care..

[INFERNO]

For me, I cannot stand my mother's compassion and hypocrisy. If you give one joke that my father and I laugh at, chances are she gets disgusted and quite literally runs to her room like a pathetic infant. I say hypocrisy since she claims to hate all forms of violence yet loves watching TV shows or movies where a violent crime is solved and the crime is shown. She gets uptight and throws a fit when my father or I or both end up insulting someone, manipulating them (depends on the severity), or just don't show compassion for those who she feels deserve it. I also dislike her hypocrisy for being caring for people with a mental illness yet having quite a bit of bias and stigma towards certain disorders yet claiming she treats everyone equally, nicely, etc... .

My father tends to over-react sometimes, mainly to health-related issues. He's always ready to rush to the hospital or make a big issue over something small, such as a splinter. The man gets all hyped up you think he's going to do some complex heart surgery. However, aside from that occassional thing, I'm not a fan of his laziness but he is also usually active, only lazy when tired but he tires rather fast.

My grandmother (one of them in particular) used to be around as my parents were not around for consistent times. The only way to summarize my views on her is I wish she'd have died earlier but she's been dead for a while now so that's a plus.

[Modus Operandi]

My mom overall is great, I only wish she wasn't quite as much of a school Nazi(she dosen't do this much tho)

My dad on the other hand... he ain't so great. My mom divorced him about 5 or 6 years ago, for reasons that have never become entirely clear. I have some guesses, but that dosen't matter here. Before he left he was extremly mentally abusive, meaning like playing mind games with people, and somewhat verbally abusive. He is still both of these things and I dread going to see him every other weekend. He does not value others opinions and has a VERY hard time accepting that he is wrong.

He has been told by multiple psychologists that he has depression, and yet he will not take his meds. He places very little trust in medical professional's diagnoses, and yet he himself is a physical therapist.:what: He always needs to hold all the cards, so to speak, and be in a position of power. I am glad, however, that he is never physically abusive. My mother is very sensetive to that sort of thing, and would call the police in a heartbeat.

Just my 2 bits.

[mrmcdonaldduck]

i hate lack of privacy, was 12 before i managed to convince them that my room is my place and they MUST knock before entering.

[CestDan]

Ok, I hate that they always are keeping an eye on me!!!! They never let me alone, well, sometimes, but I think It's not enough. Another thing that I hate (specially from my father) is that I do most of the cleaning of the house because he demands me to do it but my brother does nothing!!!!!

I also hate that my father thinks that he is perfect, so we cannot commit any mistake because he grumbles me all the entire day. The bad thing is that if he commits a mistake he laughs and he just said: "A mistake can be done by anyone". I really hate it!!!!!

[OnlyByTheNight.]

My dad- he is great, I love him to bits but sometimes he can be over protective and won't let me go places with my friends.

My mom- is a bitch. Lets not say anymore about her.

[Ardiys]

I hate the fact that I can't have a conversation with my parents that doesn't revolve around grades.
It's made me hate them, and turned me into an overall bitter person. So they've basically fucked me up. Thanks mom and dad. <3

[Blue63]

They're so nosy, they don't respect my strive for independence. They expect everything done on they're schedule. They're to over protective. My dad doesn't take anyone else into consideration, he's passive aggressive, and infuriates me, he has very little class. He thinks he is God's almighty creature and was born into perfection, and has say over everyone! He demands things, and wants me to be exactly like him. If I become a doctor, I have no doubt itw will be because he pressured me into it. But I think he has a good heart, although I highly doubt I could stand him if my Mom wasn't around. My mom, she's incredibly anal, always wants to know whats going on, doesn't give me to much freedom, but always thinks of others first :)

[LiGHT]

My dad never listens when i talk to him and he just doesn't understand at all. He is 45 years older then me and he can't handle things that I can.

[Project Delta]

The fact they never trust me about not cutting

[electric_feel01]

I hate how my parents are constantly invading in on my life! They're always asking to check my email account, know who I talk to on the phone, etc. It's so annoying and it makes me really uncomfortable.

[Project Delta]

They dont give me any privacy

[MyNameIsJack]

I hate when they think that I am a kid when I AM NOT

[Tian]

Tell to them what you feel. Let them tell you what they feel about you. Tell them what bothers you. My mom is sometimes over protective, but I let it go, still if something bothers me when se is being over protective I tell her patiently what I feel about being an over protected son. Sometimes being calm and being true is the best way to solve problems.

Good Luck

[PuppetPrince]

She was drunk and each and every person and unique thus different and express their emotions out and stuff :D Just dont let it get too you

[Blank]

I should appreciate my parents more...

[Appleton]

My Dad is an ass. Last Saturday he pretty much disowned me for being gay. Said that I was a disappointment to him. He's never been there for me, even since I was diagnosed with cancer last month. He visited me in the hospital 2 times, the day of my surgery and the day I was discharged. When my Mom had to go to Indiana to see her Mom, he was supposed to stay with me but instead he stayed at my brother's apartment downtown and left me alone for almost a week. His parting words: I hope you and your boyfriend die of AIDS, that is unless the cancer gets you first. I really really hope my mom had an affair 15 years ago.

[Rutherford The Brave]

Nothing, I somewhat respect my father now. Other than what happened in the past I have no reason to hate him.

[2D]

I love my parents.

[Aspiringanonymous]

I don't hate them anymore. I used to, passionately, back when I still lived with one or both of them.

Arguments and breach of respect are inevitable when persons holding very different world views must deal with one another daily on an intimate level.

Nowadays, I see them twice a month at most, and this distance has allowed me to reevaluate our relationship in a much more sensible manner. They are only human, and certainly they will possess certain characteristics which I dislike; I am no different to them.

However, I don't think I could ever say that I love them. I respect them fully as fellow human beings and as adult mentors, and I think that is the best way to be.

[theOperaGhost]

I love my parents. I don't hate anything about them at all. Do I get annoyed by things they do? Absolutely, who doesn't? But I could never say I hate them. It kind of sickens me that all you immature little kids seem to be able to say it so easily. Grow up and get on your own and you won't hate them anymore (with the exception of the few who actually have bad parents).

[sweetmisery]

I don't hate my parents either. I just dislike that they don't understand me and that I can't talk to them because of that. My dad always has to be right and he's always setting me (and my two sisters) up to fail. He always has some stark comment, even when I maintain an A average.

My mom on the other hand, I love her to death, but she does the same thing in a different way. She makes smart comments about me locking myself up in my room for like an hour - and it's just constant taunting.

We're not on the same level - never will but I still have deep respect for what they do for me.

[OneManArmy]

My rents can be asses sometimes, my dad's racist and homophobic but thankfully I still have hold of my own beliefs, and my mom complains about a lot of stuff, but for the most part I love them.

I was without my rents for a few days because my mom was in the hospital, and my dad was on business trip, and I revised how much I depend on them, and how lonely it is. And I'm worried about what I'm gonna do in the future since my rents are old, my dad's 62, and my moms 59. But yea I get annoyed by them sometimes but I still love them.

[NVerson]

My Dad is an ass. Last Saturday he pretty much disowned me for being gay. Said that I was a disappointment to him. He's never been there for me, even since I was diagnosed with cancer last month. He visited me in the hospital 2 times, the day of my surgery and the day I was discharged. When my Mom had to go to Indiana to see her Mom, he was supposed to stay with me but instead he stayed at my brother's apartment downtown and left me alone for almost a week. His parting words: I hope you and your boyfriend die of AIDS, that is unless the cancer gets you first. I really really hope my mom had an affair 15 years ago.

wow i'd hate to say this but he's an ass

[XxHaViiK]

Haha, EVERYTHING. I despise and disown my entire family. Don't even call them "Mom" or "Dad" just call them their actual names. They're homophobic, self centered, selfish, annoying, and careless. Moving to the East Coast when I'm older so I can be with all of my REAL friends, and I'll have nothing to do with my family anymore.

[Brazdar]

Hmm I don't think I have any reason to hate my parents, because anything they let's say 'forbid' me from doing I agree with, I mean I'd do the same if I were them

[cherry_boi]

umm my parents are pretty cool i guess, they cud be worse....

my mom is really close minded an self centered sometimes, but that's not really her fault i guess cuz she has a hard time interpreting and empathizing with other ppl...shes' also far too traditional and i wish she was more aware that it is possible for someone younger and less experienced then her to know more about certain subjects

my dads' pretty nice i guess, but he's kind of dumb/ignorant, i wish he'd expand his knowledge...he has no passion for anything aside from sports, wish he'd peruse some other type of hobby as well

they also don't really appreciate me, cuz i don't think they really comprehend what i've accomplished thus far in life.

and they need to learn to fuck off sometimes and just leave me alone rather then trying to solve problems they know nothing about.

lol but as i said i cud do alot worse, i kno they love me :)

[AncientCatastrophe]

Sometimes I hate my parents especially when we are arguing
They always say that they're right even though they didn't fully understand the real problem.....They're not letting me talk in our arguments and they don't wanna hear my reasons

But aside from that we really get along well :yes:

[TAC1]

My mum can be bitchy towards me and makes it look like she is basically unintentionally doing it. She also stirs arguments up, like if me and her argue then she'll tell my sister and make it sound worse.

My Dad doesn't live at home so I don't see him much however he seems alright most of the time apart from him getting in moods quickly.

My dad definitely fits this description and my mom is the one that helps solve it.

[TAC1]

My dad would yell at me for the littlest of things. Sometimes I feel like hes doing it on purpose just to annoy me or because he has no feelings.

[too_cute_for_you]

I don't hate them. I just get annoyed with them. The usual stuff.
Although, there are some things I don't like about my mom. For one shes homophobic
( And I think im bi ) I dont understand how someone can be scared of gays/bis. It makes no sense. My opinion doesn't matter. I try to give my opinion on things and she usually just ignores it. But besides that shes good. I can deal with it though. Shes the one who gave birth to me so I should be grateful