friend, crush?

[superguy]

Ok, I met a new guy a couples of weeks ago and I really like him! He's a year younger than me and I think he's gay. He's super-nice to me and always talks to me, but he is mean and hateful to everyone else. I really like him but I don't know if I should make a move or not! He talks about streaking and skinny dipping alot around me, and stuff like that. What should I do?

[rainebg]

Well I would say that you should bring up gay issues like gay marriage and gay adoption. Judge his reaction and if its positive ask in a discreet way if hes gay. For example say something like "Well are you...?" and accompany that with an "I'm cool with that so you can be honest I wont tell anyone". If he tells you that he is gay then tell him that you are gay too but don't ask him out yet. you have to let things develop and build up some trust first. Then if you are ready then ask him out.

[nick]

If you want to go skinny dipping with him just do it. You make him sound like a bit of a jerk to other people, so take account that being friends with him might not make you popular.

[Skeln]

Yeah, just ask him if he is nor if he isn't. I suggest you two jujst sit down and ask a bunch of questions, wait awhile until there's few topics left, then ask him his sexuality. It's an innocent way to get information out of people. Then just slowly make your move from there. He's a year younger, so take it slowly if he is gay/bi. If he's not, then leave it at that.

[charlie w]

the reason why he is mean to other people might just be something bad that has happened to him. remember to take things slow if you want to get with him.

[superguy]

Thanks Guys! You've been a great help

[Leprachaun]

I think you should just talk to him, maybe about puberty or other guy's or something.

[ThUnDeR]

if you hink he is like you go ahead and make a move and see what happens
good luck;)